The Christmas gift I remember most vividly from my childhood wasn’t one I received myself. Early one autumn, just over forty years ago, my father purchased a rusty, decrepit antique sleigh and set about restoring it to present to my mother.
As a teenager and young woman, horses had been her passion, a passion that had no place in her adult life as a busy mother and full-time partner in my father’s business. Yet as she entered middle age, I think my mother began to worry that if she didn’t climb back on a horse soon, she might not ever do it again. Her greatest joy in life would be nothing but a passing memory, relegated to her unfettered past, a time before marriage and children and working for my dad conspired to ensure that her own hopes and dreams took a back seat to everyone else’s needs.
And so, on the cusp of forty, my mom bought herself a horse and proceeded to fall hopelessly in love all over again — with her spirited three-year-old Morgan and with the smells of sawdust and grain and fresh hay and saddle soap. Of course, the horse needed a place to live. We left the modest in-town house attached to my dad’s dental office on a busy road, where my brother and I had spent most of our lives, and moved out to the country, to a remote 1765 cape with a barn, deep in the woods and surrounded by trails. A house of low ceilings and wide, sloping floorboards, steeped in silent history.
For months, most nights after his last patient, my father slipped away to work on that old sleigh, rebuilding it from a broken down skeletal form, cleaning and polishing the runners, refurbishing all the parts, upholstering a new black leather seat, priming and painting and detailing the bright red panels and the glossy black trim. He raced against the clock, working late into the night and every available weekend hour, to make sure it was finished, perfect, by Christmas morning.
Many of my childhood memories are hazy. The horses, the sleigh, even the barn itself are long gone. But I can easily recall the dazzlingly bright Christmas morning when my dad hitched up my mom’s horse, lifted her up into the seat of the sleigh he’d made for her, and took her for a ride.
What I remember, of course, is this great labor of love on my father’s part; how, in giving her this extraordinary gift from his own heart and hand, he was really saying: “I see you. I know who you are and I know what you love, and I honor that.”
This Christmas, my husband Steve gave me the equivalent of my mother’s sleigh, a gift that is so much more than the thing itself.
I knew, over these last two years, that I was writing a book; in fact, it was never out of my mind. Even when I wasn’t working on it, I was working on it. Of course, I was also living my life, taking care of my family, spending time with my friends, writing this weekly blog.
I began the blog the week before The Gift of an Ordinary Day was published, back in the fall of 2009. My publisher had told me I needed a website, and that I should write something for it. But until the day I wrote my own first blog entry, I wasn’t exactly sure what a blog was; I’d never even seen one.
Once I started writing, though, I didn’t stop. I loved taking time out of the busyness of life to sit quietly and reflect on the meaning of the living, loved gathering up my thoughts and trying to make some sense of them, searching for the story beneath the story, the one that would give depth and shape to my experience and perhaps begin to illuminate the experiences of others as well.
Even more, I loved the conversation that soon got underway here, the thoughtful comments from you, my readers, the glimpses you’ve offered into your own lives and passions and predicaments, the heartfelt support you’ve extended to me as I’ve shared mine.
And yet, I’ve never thought of these pieces as much more than parts of that ongoing conversation, temporal and fleeting, musings that are very much of the moment in which they were written.
Turns out, my husband saw things a little differently. Perhaps he understands, even better than I do, what matters to me and why. And so months ago, unbeknownst to me, he began to gather these three years worth of pieces into a book. The result is the beautiful 350-page illustrated hardcover volume I opened on Christmas morning.
He titled the book The View from My Window, and for the jacket he shot a photo of our mountains, as I see them every single morning from my spot at the kitchen sink. He chose photos, wrote captions, assembled and re-read and copy-edited three years worth of my posts. He hired a proofreader, designed the pages and the cover, and asked a printer friend in Minnesota to produce a print run of thirty elegantly bound copies.
To say I was surprised on Christmas morning to find out I’d written not one book but two, would be an understatement. Realizing that my husband had been laboring for months, in hours when I’d assumed he was working on his own stuff, to produce a book printed and published just for me, reminded me of the long-ago efforts of my dad.
At the same time, this gesture is entirely in character for my husband, who shares my passion for books and who is at heart a publisher himself. We met, after all, at work, back when he was the marketing director at Houghton Mifflin Company and I was an aspiring young editor there. Little wonder then, that all these years later, the gift from his heart was this: to lovingly collect my words and give them back to me between two covers.
I’m not sure what to do with these books. I will give them to a few close family members and friends and save a couple for my sons and their families. But I also know that without you, the readers of this blog, The View from My Window wouldn’t exist. I would have stopped writing here long ago if it weren’t for the connection and sense of community we’ve created in this place — together.
And so, with the publisher’s gracious permission, I’d like to give away two copies of this (very) limited edition to you, the readers who show up here week after week, to read and respond and share your own stories with me and with one another. (To enter to win, just leave a comment below. I will draw two names at random on January 8 — publication date for Magical Journey!)
Today, as the snow fell softly outside, I opened my new book and began to read. It seemed right somehow, that as I bid good-bye to 2012 and prepare to welcome a new book into the world just a week from now, I pause to look backward as well as forward. Here, then, are a few of my posts from the past. Perhaps you will remember them. If you’re new to this space, perhaps you will be happy to read them for the first time.
Blessings to you and yours for a joyful new year. May you be happy. May you be well. May you be safe. May you be peaceful and at ease.
“Adulthood for Amateurs,” Oct. 26,2009
Hi Katrina, I don’t know if I qualify as one who shares and responds with my own stories, but I do often read week after week. Your stories certainly inspire me, so I hope to share soon. The snow is inspiring too. Happy Winter
Irene
Thank you for the opportunity to share in this profound gift! My life has been changed by your words, have brought me comfort, and have helped me hear my Mom’s voice. I am beyond wishing for this.
Good luck everyone!!
Oh, Katrina…your words are always round and evocative, but this was above and beyond. I can relate in so many ways. And a compilation of your wise words must be a wonderful thing.
Oh, my God..what a beautiful gift. And now another beautiful Christmas memory for your boys to share. Tears filled MY eyes, I can only imagine the feeling in your heart when you opened that book. You are a truly blessed woman, Katrina.
Katrina, what a beautiful story about your dad and what a thoughtful gift from your husband! That man is a keeper!
I LOVE this. What an extraordinary gesture by your husband – a sleigh indeed. I’ve actually wanted to do that with my own blog for a while, and never gotten around to it. How marvelous it would be for someone to SEE that, without even asking!!! I’ve been thrilled to be reading along as you write here, and am at least one person who’s enormously grateful that you chose to keep writing here! xoxox
Katrina -loved this post. My husband also surprised me and my daughter this Christmas with notebooks of all the blog postings that she wrote last year as a student for a semester in Strasbourg, France. It is a treasure to have them all together to be able to look through again. Always enjoy your posts and looking forward to the new book.
I love your blog and your books: they give me peace and a moment of quiet in busy days. Bringing joy to my downcast spirits sometimes. Increasing my appreciation for “ordinary days”. What a gift! Thank you!
Such a dear thoughtful man. I would love to have a copy of this book. Just preordered your new one from amazon!
Katrina, what a beautiful moment from your husband that will warm your heart forever. I have just discovered you have a new book coming out and am beside myself with joy. Mitten Strings for God is one of my favorite books of all time. I would read it every year when my son was little as comfort and love from one mom to another. Thinking about it now makes me long for those days when my 14 year old was so little. 😉 and somehow I missed you have a blog so that brings me such joy as well. Yay! More to read! Best wishes on your new publication–cannot wait to read it.
Beautiful, meaningful gifts – your peaceful, contemplative blog posts, and your husband’s thoughtful compilation of your work. Longer-lasting, more heartwarming than any purchased item.
Sometimes your words hold me in their arms like a mother holds a child. An invaluable gift in my life.
Your husband’s gift, and your father’s, are the kind I always aspire to give but find it so challenging in a life that always feels overflowing with to-do lists. Thanks for sharing the story of both of them.
Wow–what a beautiful and amazing gift! I am so touched! Happy New Year!
I have so enjoyed reading your blog and your second book “Gifts of an Ordinary Day”. It was so appropriate that I “discovered ” you while sitting in the campus center at Smith College. I was there with my youngest, our first Parents Weekend and happened to pick up a copy of the Alumnae Quarterly and read the story profiling you. Your book was obviously written just for me! I had to get a copy. And so I did! And it put words to all the feelings I had been experiencing. I then started following your blog, sharing your posts with friends going through the similar scenarios. And for Christmas, my first born, knowing her mother well…….gave me the gift of your newest book. She preordered it and wrapped a lovingly made gift certificate announcing her gift. I can’t wait to read it!
Thanks for two beautiful Christmas stories which were stories of unending love and devotion. These inspire me to do something similar for my beloved family next year. I would love to win one of the books and would share it with others! Happy New Year!
What wonderful stories– what beautiful gifts!
What a lovely way to start my morning. You are blessed to have such special men in your lives. Thank you for sharing your life with us.
Thank you for giving me this wonderful book. It is going to a good home along with collection that has been my joy these many years.
Absolutely beautiful. What a precious gift and beautiful story.
So beautiful. A perfect example of past and intertwined, and a perfect example of why we need to share our stories. Lovely spot of hope like bright white snow in a time when hope is so needed.
What a beautiful, thoughtful gift! I love these stories. Thanks for sharing.
Beautiful…magical…and full of love!
Katrina – I love both your sweet stories of gifts lovingly and very thoughtfully given. I still hope someday to find someone who “sees” me just as these two husbands saw their wives! Wishing you much success with the new book.
Katrina, what lovely gifts from two special men in your life. This story brought tears to my eyes, thanks for sharing!
Since a friend first shared your “The Gift of an Ordinary Day” video, you have been a source of inspiration. Thank you.
Same here….ever since I saw the video, I had to read the book, and I appreciate your wisdom and learn from it as I raise my two boys, 5 and 8. Thanks.
I think I bought at least a dozen copies of “The Gift of an Ordinary Day” to share with friends and I frequently share your posts on FB.
I LOVE that Steve knew *you* well enough to create such an extraordinary gift for you.
Beautiful post. Just gorgeous.
HAPPY NEW YEAR!
Katrina,
I love your work and can’t wait to download your new book in a few days. Your Book The Gift of an Ordinary Day is awesome! I have a teenage son who will be leaving for college in September and I find your book very comforting! Thank you,
All the Best
Mary
A beautiful story, Katrina. I always felt your words came from a special place. So glad your husband, Steve, had the perspective, wisdom and insight to combine these two into a book. A gift from the heart.
Awoke early this morning to find my 19 year old (the person whose departure inspired me to find your words) feeling under the weather on the living room couch.
As I crept downstairs to find a quiet place to browse on my laptop, I was inspired to seek out your words.
Thank you!
Marianne
What a lovely gift.
I’m so looking forward to the release of your next book. I’ve only recently begun commenting on your blog, but I’ve been reading it, and all your works, since my daughters, now 13 and 10, were small. Thanks for sharing yourself – you help me choose my path.
Your words usually bring tears to my eyes but this time it’s your husband who has made me cry. What a beautiful love story.
I would treasure your book with all my heart! Crossing fingers and toes!! Happy New Year to you…may you continue to be richly blessed with love. Xoxo.
Oh Katrina, I would LOVE to win one of these. I can’t express how much your words have meant to me in these years of parenting littles. I usually speed through my Google Reader each morning, but I always slow down when one of your posts is there.
My husband got me a similarly thoughtful gift for Christmas this year. I have kept a journal for a decade now, and I faithfully write letters to my Nana and my best friend. I’ve always wanted a nice place to keep these things. My husband secretly asked his dad, a master carpenter, to build me a little trunk for them. When I opened it on Christmas morning I cried at the glossy cherry and mahogany and the smell of wood when I opened the lid.
What an amazing gift!! I would be honored to receive a copy! PS–LOVE the view from your kitchen window!!
As I have shared before, Mitten Strings and Gift touched me deeply. What a thoughtful gift your husband created for you. I would treasure a copy!
Oh I love your blog so much! And I love this post & what a beautiful gift you received from your husband. I’m excited for “Magical Journey”! I would treasure such a special gift…
Peace to you & your family this New Year!
Thank you…….Reading all your work brings me peace everytime
Wow-that is so wonderful what Steve did and also mazel on a beautiful post! I also see the parallel of you mother moving you all to a place that honored her heart via making room for the horse and all it represented, and the same for you with the move to NH:)
Thank you once again for your beautiful words. Those are both amazing stories.
Enjoy!
It is in giving that we receive . . .
Katrina, what joy and comfort your writings provide me. Thank you for sharing the story of the sleigh and the newly bound collections so thoughtfully crafted for you. Such gifts of being seen and honored are treasure.
I’d be thrilled to have a copy.
Peace to you in the new year.
The thoughtfulness of these two wonderful men is so heartwarming! I can only imagine your face and your heart full of love and delight as you unwrapped your beautiful gift!
You are blessed Katrina, and we are blessed to have you share your thoughtful insights in your books and with this blog!
Wishing you a year filled with moments of joy, awe, and love so you may continue to blog and share with us! Looking forward to Magical Journey!
What a beautiful and thoughtful gift. Someone as loving and thoughtful to share their lives with is one of my many wishes for my two daughters. I may not always comment or share as my time these past few months has been limited by family and professional crisis after crisis, but I always cherish your shared words. Hope I qualify for consideration. Thanks and may the coming year(s) bring blessings.
I love it! Even if I dont win a copy of your book I hope to see it in person when I visit you the next time we’re back in the NH woods visiting my family. What a lovely, lovely gift. Three cheers for Steve!
I also love going back and reading my old blog posts. It reminds me how quickly life changes and also how important it is to capture today…for today will be history in such a short time.
Happy New Year, my friend!
Judy
justonefoot.com
Oh, Katrina! What wonderful Christmas gifts to two extraordinary women, your mother and yourself, from two loving husbands.
Your words continue to move me and inspire me in ways I cannot begin to describe. As I look forward to the release of “Magical Journey” I am in the midst of re-reading “The Gift of an Ordinary Day.” This winter and spring, my daughter is a high school junior, and we are in the throes of delving into SAT study guides, perusing college websites, and getting acquainted with her school’s college counseling office. Meanwhile, my eighth grade son is completing applications to various boarding schools as he prepares to take the SSATs next week. As you may imagine, your words have particular relevance in my life.
I also know that I am at a turning point in my own life story…yearning for change, but having no clue as to what that change will be. Change, though, is banging on our door since for the first time in his life since grad school, my husband is staring unemployment in the face due to some corporate reorganizations. It is a scary predicament.
Even so, your reflections let me know that when life feels as if it is spiraling out of control, there is grace. I remind myself to take a deep breath and pause to notice the many blessings before me. Thank you for your reminders to be content with what I have.
I would love to be a recipient of your treasured Christmas volume if fortune allows.
Best wishes for a very Happy New Year!
Such a thoughtful gift! Your dad’s to your mom, your husband’s to you, and now yours to (two of) us. It is a great and simple pleasure to read your blog, especially on those days when I find myself in need of a reminder of what’s truly important. What a lovely gift indeed, to be able to hold your words in my hands – my thanks to you (and your husband) for your generosity in offering this chance! Happy 2013 🙂
I anxiously await your new book! I love your writing, how do much of it is so familiar with my own experiences and goes straight to the heart! Have a wonderful New Year!
Truly lovely. Thank you for sharing. Again.
Our past is such an essential part of who we are. For your soul’s language to be gathered and given back in such a loving and thoughtful way is such a precious gift. May 2013 bring you abundant joy and bleesings, the same gifts you give to your readers.
As a long-time reader of your blog — in fact, in retrospect, I think I might have been reading since nearly the first post — I would LOVE to win a copy of this. What a thoughtful, interesting gift idea. I very much know what you’re talking about when you say what a gift it is to receive something from someone that communicates “I know and see you.” Happy New Year!
Sitting in bed this cold wet morning, an English girl now living on the west coast of Canada and you have given me a little spark of hope. I am now in my forties and horses were my passion growing up. I had honestly thought that this was it and that I would never again touch the velvet nose of my own horse. Reading this has just reminded me that anything is possible!
Thank you for sharing your stories. Your words touch my heart.
Best wishes to you and your family for this coming year.
Katrina, your words are such a gift to me. I have read and reread your books several times, given away many copies as gifts. I hope you will be able to get the book your husband made for you out of your blog published for everyone to read!! I have printed off pages myself and have a little notebook I put then in but to have all would be such a gift!!
May you have a peaceful and wonderful New Year.
What a perfect gift! And what a lovely story about John and Marilyn, one I had not yet heard. I consider myself so fortunate to have them right next door. Have a Happy New Year and a wonderful winter!
I love your blog posts and would absolutely cherish a copy of your limited edition! Happy new year!
That was so beautiful it brought tears to my eyes. To be so seen and known and well loved by another. What more do any of us want?
My, don’t we have some thoughtful husbands? What a beautiful gift and gesture! Well done Steve! Blessings to you in the New Year!
What a treasure to receive from your wonderful hubbie!!! It must be so enjoyable to hold your own words in your hands and reminisce on your thoughts and feelings from the past. Somehow a tangible, hard copy is just so satisfying to read and hold!
Thank you for sharing your eloquent words, Katrina, and please know that you are gifted at touching such a deep and tender spot in the hearts of those who read your wonderful musings!
What an amazing gift!
The first time I read your book, I felt I knew you. You could have been my next door neighbor or a friend in my book group. Everything you said resonated so much with my own life. It was wonderful to know someone was “out there” putting all of our feelings down on paper for us!
I SO love your books blog posts and Facebook posts. They are like a light to me, words that stimulate my own thought processes and seem to reach deeper than any other author that I’ve read. Thank you!
My last name is Grant 🙂
What wonderful expressions of true love. Thank you for sharing your gifts with us!
How generous of you and Steve to share your special private gift with others. Thank you for this opportunity…looking forward to January 8th…the possibility of two of your books!
All the best!
Your writing touches my heart, and whenever I see an email from you (of a new blog post) my heart sings. You help me to live my life more mindfully, to parent my children with more conscious attention given to the gifts of each ordinary day, and to keep perspective when life events conspire to pull me off track. Happy New Year to you, and may it be a year full of new blessings. Appreciatively, Erin
What a lovely gift…your post brought tears to my eyes as well. I would cherish a copy!
So much beauty and love in this post. Thank you so much for sharing your parent’s story, and the story of your husband’s gift to you.
It would be wonderful if it were also available to purchase!
What a gift.
Your books speak to me in so many ways. I am anxiously awaiting your newest book. The gift your husband gave you this Christmas brought tears to my eyes. He knows what brings you joy. Thanks for a chance to be one of the lucky ones who will get to read the book. Peace and blessings.
I love what your husband did for you – such a thoughtful gift you to cherish. I have read your words in each of your entries and would love to share your wonderful gift with you. Happy New Year.
what a magical gift.
What a lovely present from your husband. Thank you for the gift of your writing—I have especially appreciated your words in this past year as my only son left for college. Your words have been a wonderful companion during this bittersweet time.
What a beautiful gift. My husband did something similar for me once – and that gift took my breath away. I would be honoured to receive a copy of his gift to you, and to all of us.
Karen
Katrina,
This brought tears to my eyes. The thing we all long for is to be seen and heard. To be known.
Thank you for sharing this beautiful story and giving a few lucky people the gift of sharing in your Christmas gift.
Mary
What a tremendous gift — and how wonderful to have your beautiful blog posts together in a form you can hold in your hands.
Although I loved and have reread several times your book, I only recently found your blog — as I was reading Margaret Roach’s. I am looking forward to your new book, and so thrilled to have discovered your blog. Now I can savor your thoughtful perspectives on life on a regular basis.
What a wonderful gift of love. The view “out the window” is beautiful!
The book in and of itself is a beautiful gift, but more so, the thought behind it. How blessed you are to have someone who worked so earnestly to create such a treasure for you. All the best to you and yours in the coming year, including great success with the new book!
Love yourbooks and am lookingforward to the new one. As a mom to two so, I can relate to many if your posts.
i would so love a copy – A view from my Window … oh it would be such a treat.
Happy New Year – love hearing and reading your posts … looking fwd to your new book.
Katrina, what a beautiful post! Your words are a gift everyday.
Janet
What wonderful gifts–both your father’s and your husband’s. Thank you for sharing and inspiring, as always.
This Christmas my husband, too, gave me a gift of the heart. He transcribed the journal I kept of my firstborn daughter’s first year of life and put the entries with photos of her from that time. My daughter and I both cried when we opened the book. Those are the cherished, memorable gifts of Christmas.
The one phrase from this post of yours that made me smile the most was “the publisher’s gracious permission.” Haha. How kind of your husband to allow you to share with us. I hope my name is drawn!
Happy New Year!
What a lovely, loving, gift. Much like the words and insights you share with us all, Katrina! Blessings to you and your family in the New Year. Namaste, Colleen
Thank you Katrina for all of your inspiring posts. You help me see things from a different perspective. I feel that I am able to embrace life’s little bumps and learn from them instead of looking at them as the end of the world! Keep writing!
Dearest Katrina, I have followed your writing since I discovered you in Meditations from the Mat. I have gifted that book to many friends and yogis in the past/present. It sits in my yoga room and is one of my favorites. I loved Mitten Strings and everyone of my nieces and friends have received copies as they welcome new motherhood into their lives. They have also started buying it and sharing it with their friends! When Gift was published I read and re-read it with tears & smiles each time. We read it for our book club and invited you to attend (sadly your friend was very ill and you could not join us). Now I’m anxiously awaiting your new book as I too am embracing middle age. Three kids with last one leaving the “nest” last year. May your New Year be filled with love, light and laughter. With love, Laura Zausmer from Michigan xoxo
The Gift of an Ordinary Day are words of my daily meditation. I have taken your words and transferred them to a hand-painted 8″ tile that hangs from my kitchen wall.
I don’t ever want to be forgetful of all the blessings in my life, including the seemingly ordinary days that blend, fade, and disappear with hardly a notice. Thank you for your inspiration.
What an inspiring story of love and connection! I am eagerly awaiting the release of your new book, and of course, would love to win a copy of your Christmas-present book. Thank you for sharing your life and wisdom with your readers!
I have been thinking for quite a while about culling out posts I’ve written over six years of blogging to make books for each of my girls. Your husband’s incredible gesture of love is an inspiration.
Wow, love that! What a great gift from his heart to yours. Brought tears to my eyes.
Your words are always inspiring and so worthy of multiple books. What a lovely gift and demonstration of love.
We all have stories to share. Often we feel they are not worthy to share and so we hold them fast inside our memories, our souls. Most die with us. You have shown us a glimpse of your story, and by doing so, may have inspired others to share the wealth of their secret lives.
Thank you
Wow – so impressive! Please give Steve a hearty pat on the back for me for a job well done. What an extraordinary gift of love and thoughtfulness.
Greetings Katrina,
Thank you for sharing your gift with us. Not just this book opportunity, but your gift of the written word. As a mother of two young boys I enjoy your voice through out snippets of my day. I leave “Mitten Strings” in my car and when the boys fall asleep or we are stopped at a train or many other delayed parts of my day–I pull out the book for a little perspective. It forces me to slow down, sip my cocoa, and thank my lucky stars for my two precious and spirited young boys!
What a beautiful thoughtful gift. I was just thinking about how I forgot to buy myself a book for Christmas-something I always make sure I have-but then I remember your new book is due at my door step any day. I love every one of your centered calm reflections on every day life.
Ahhhhh…..dear Katrina, what a perfect gift from your loving husband and so well-deserved. May you be surprised and delighted by the strength and riches of your own words as they minister to your soul all over again. I cross my fingers to be one of your lucky winners this month. 🙂 Also, just thought I’d let you know that my father built from scratch a red and black horse-drawn sleigh for our family one year when I was around 12. Our whole family enjoyed so many beautiful sleigh rides out in the country – especially every Christmas time. It now sits proudly on my front lawn through the Christmas season, no longer pulled by horses but poised as a symbol of my father’s love, dedication, creativity and his special way of making magic. Sending you love and wishes for a most amazing new year. Melody
What a lovely gift, Katrina – and how blessed you are to have one by your side who understands and appreciates you so deeply. It is indeed the gift of being “seen” that means the most.
I have loveed your work ever since Quisi mom and daughter Mary Lynne and Elizabeth introduced me to you some years ago. My mom passed away in November, and when our grown chef son found 3 of her very old, worn cookbooks on one of her shelves (passed down from HER mother) and asked if he could have them, I said yes. But first I secretly had them restored. The sweet joy on his face Christmas morning when he opened them, probably gave me the same warm thrill as it did your husband when you opened your gift. I think a spirit resides in those kinds of gifts, now and across time.
Wow, I have been consoled, inspired and lifted by your writing and this safe haven of community you have created. Thank you to you, Katrina and all your readers. I have learned so much from you all.
What a wonderful and thoughtful gift from your husband. You are truly blessed. May both of you have a very happy new year.
I only “discovered” your writing recently, but it came at a very timely moment in my life. As I just read this latest post my eyes welled up with tears. You truly are blessed in your husband, and he in you. This is such an incredibly thoughtful gift. Whether I am lucky enough to win one of your limited copies or not, I will continue to read your older blogs, a few at a time. I am treasuring everyone that I read. Thank you, and give that husband of yours a big hug from me.
your writing calms me, and I still remain grateful to you when you wrote me back after I read the gift of an ordinary day and told you how meaningful that book is to me.
I have only discovered your blog in the last couple of months but I have to say that it has been a godsend. My daughter has turned 18 and I am learning how different parenting is now that I have a young adult. Your insight and wisdom has been invaluable and we are enjoying a wonderful new relationship. I look forward to reading your future blogs. Thank you. Wishing you all the very best wishes for the New Year.
I have read every single post, and each one has inspired me to try to find my better self amidst the overflowing laundry baskets and packed court appearance schedule. I usually end up taking a walk with my daughter. Thank you.
Hello Old Friend, I call you that not to assume a previous life shared and a reconnection beckoning, rather a connection formed through the pages of your ‘Gift of an Ordinary Day.’ Your ‘Gift’ reached out across the ocean to me at a time when I was in turmoil, leaving our home in the city, Brisbane, to move to a little rural town out west. I needed a friend who could understand why this move was so necessary yet so painful simultaneously. You were there and your voice above all my other well intended friends and family was the one that got me through. Encouraged me to face my fears and instilled in me the belief that what I had done was so very right. Thank You and I have been waiting quietly for your next chapter, to reconnect with you Old Friend.
Although this is the first time I have written a comment, I have treasured your books and your blog for years. How lucky you are to have received such a wonderful gift, and what a joy it would be to own a copy. Thank you for sharing!
I am awaiting delivery of “Magical Journey” with much anticipation. It was my sister’s gift to me this Christmas. How I should love to also receive a copy of “The View from My Window” which is surely love at its most heartfelt. Thank you for sharing your life with all of us.
Your blog always seems to come to me exactly where my heart is. Whether I am stewing about a problem, wondering “what next”, or consciously trying to be in the moment, I find sollice knowing that I am not alone. I thank you for the gifts you share. You offer help to make me better and open to living a true life.
What a most beautiful, heart centered story you shared about your childhood and the sleigh, and then, tah dah…the gift of deepest heart from your husband. My soul opened wide in appreciation of his doing this for you and warm tears fell..a most beautiful story…and a drawing for a book, oh that is delicious.
May 2013 see ever more expansion in your sharing of your gift of writing.
To have a partner give a gift such as the one you received is priceless. I wish I could say I knew someone who would even think of something so thoughtful. My eyes watered while reading such a wonderful “love” story…thanks for sharing. 🙂
What an incredible gift from your husband. And I loved the story about your mother and the sleigh. I have a neighbor who reconnected with her love of horses at midlife. She now adopts rescued horses from Montana. I think she has nine at last count. Maybe she ought to get sleigh as well — but we don’t get much snow.
Katrina,
What a lovely present indeed! It is truly a blessing from your husband and a gift for all of us to have your words to turn to on a weekly basis. And a gift for the winners! (Which I would be thrilled to be..so I’m tossing my name in). Thanks for the opportunity and happy happy new year. May 2013 be filled with nothing but love and light for you and yours.
What a wonderful, thoughtful gift from your husband! He sounds like a keeper! He did a great job of honoring you.
You married a man as wonderful as your father. You are blessed! May the journey continue from the view from your window.
Peace & love in the New Year.
What a wonderful gift your husband gave you. As a fellow author, I know each story we write, be it book or blog, is a window into our souls…it was nice of him to save your stories in a special way for you, and future generations.
Happy writing in 2013!
What a wonderful, heartfelt, perfect gift! I would be honored to receive such a lovely, inspiring copy of your work to turn to in times of need. I have enjoyed your books for the past 7 years when a dear friend gave me Mitten Strings from God (which I have read twice- after the birth of each of my sons) and given your books as gifts to friends who have become mothers. Thank you for continuing to inspire. Much gratitude, Stacie
I feel like you have already given me so many gifts. You are grace and beauty and grit and kindness all rolled into one and shared with us…with courage and goodness.
Your words are my go to words…often.
My sweet husband would do something kind as your husband did.
Just know that you have made such an impression in my life. And the lives of so many.
You are indeed blessed to have received such an incredible gift from your husband. I loved what you said in your blog: that he truly knows who you are and what you love. And he valued that without trying to change anything about you. What a precious gift.
I am so looking forward to your new book. Not only do I love your writing but I share you love of New Hampshire with all of its beauty and stillness. We sold our home there a few months ago and I miss it terribly.
I am thankful to have your wonderful words in my life.
Claudine Reilly
What a touching and most beautiful gift to receive from your husband……it brought tears to my eyes and a lump in my throat!You and your writings are truly one of my “life’s extras”!
What a beautiful, beautiful gift – for you and those who will undoubtedly cherish the other 29 copies. Thanks so much for sharing it with us…
What a wonderful gift. I’ m reading your Gift of an Ordinary Day and among the gifts you’ve given me include your example appreciating rather than pushing your children into what you or someone thinks they may or should be. So with my own children I’m learning to worry less and appreciate more. Thank you.
The words you write give me pause to understand a little better the tender moments of life. Thank you for sharing your beautiful talent.
I LOVE the stories about both your Dad and you husband—-so romantic..
I would be honored to have this book on my shelf…fingers crossed.
Happy New Year.
Joanne
What a wonderful gift! Happy New Year! Can’t wait to read your new book.
Your stories are so inspirational. The Gift of an Ordinary Day was a wonderful gift to me,I will never forget! A great read.
,
what a beautiful story and I can’t wait to get your book (the one I can buy, it has been pre-ordered)
I love reading your words and sharing your journey. Your experience helps me as I experience my daughters first year of college. I would love to have a copy of your wonderful present.
Katrina,
What a thoughtful husband and truly beautiful gift. Thank you so much for your words of inspiration. I so look forward to your emails — like a gift to myself when I open and read them. I recommended “the Gift of an Ordinary Day” to many of my 40-something friends who seemed to be going through the same feelings, with teenage and college bound children, and all similarly loved it. Can’t wait for Jan. 8 to download Magical Journey. Best wishes on your continued success and hopefully to many more books to come!
I too received a wonderful gift of the written word this Christmas from my mother. She responded to our frequent requests that she write down the stories and her memories of growing up on the family farm that has been in our family since 1720. She nervously handed us all “her big present” on Christmas morning. “I hope you like it. Let me know what you think.” I wondered what this envelope held that made her seem so vulnerable. When I opened “Applewood FarmTales” I knew in a moment the gift that I held in my hands and understood her anxiety. She had written all these pages in secret, hours spent typing away on her computer (that is not always her friend,)not telling us or asking for input because she wanted it to be a surprise. My two teenage girls immediately exclaimed, “Grandma this is wonderful. I can’t wait to read it.” I responded with tears in my eyes….. “Oh Mom…”. My mom’s memories are held between two red pieces of paper with a Thompson’s Cider Vinegar label glued on the front and kinko copies tucked inside. It is a published work filled with love. The positive response she received from us all was met with a smile and the comment that there may be more stories to come. My mother is an amazing person and a true gift in my life. Applewood Farm Tales will always be my favorite piece of published work in my home. I am glad that you also received the gift of words and of love.
While I don’t comment, I am a faithful reader. You have brought me much comfort and peace. I can’t wait for your new book! Happy New Year!
What an honor to have the opportunity to receive such a wonderful gift. Thank you for your generosity and thoughtfulness. Blessings in the new year.
Wow – what a kind, thoughtful gift to cherish forever. Thoroughly enjoyed the story of your Dad’s gift – as I do all your stories. Thank you and Happy New Year!
Knowing that I am a child of God and how unique I am in His eyes aspires me to live to serve others in just being myself and when I do I see that smile that brings great peace to my soul.
Thank you for your grace..I pray to start the new year with such a patient love for family and nature.
I love reading all your blogs but this one touched me especially. The gift of being seen is one we all aspire to receive, and I believe, try to impart to others. I feel you see and post for many of us; and please know, through all these replies, you are seen and honored as well!
What a beautiful gift from a very thoughtful and loving husband!
Reading this just brought a lump to my throat~ What an unbelievable gift your husband created for you and how loved & appreciated you must feel.This is a treasure and I would be honored to receive it, as would any of your many fans. Good Luck to everyone. I have my fingers crossed. I hope 2013 brings you on another Magical Journey.
Katerina,
I just discovered your blog a few months ago, and though I am older than you, I’ve found your blogposts really wonderful. But today, when I read your essay called, “Goodbyes,” your message really hit home.
Yesterday I said goodbye to my son again, knowing I won’t see him for several months. It doesn’t get any easier and, now, I realize why I’ve been so cranky the last few days. I’m going through goodbye withdrawal. As the days progress, it will get easier, but, for the first time, I think I understand it better. I’ll never get over the pain of saying goodbye.Being a Mom is something I just love and so the goodbyes hurt, physically hurt. It’s hard to remember that sooner or later, there will be hellos again. So until it stops hurting, I take long, long walks in the woods. I swim. And I read your lovely words of wisdom. Thanks.
Hi Katrina. Thank you for inspiring me in my roles of mother, writer, reader, homemaker, and wife. I’d be very honored to own a copy of the book.
As one who loves words your posts never fail to move me. This particular post strikes a chord in my heart and brings back beautiful memories of my parents'(now deceased) love for each other and for us, their children, a love that made them do the same kind of caring and thoughtful things your father and your husband did/do. Thank you for a great New Year’s Eve gift.
What a wonderful gift…to be seen in such a way by someone you love so dearly.
Someday I hope I have someone who will bear witness to my own life in such a beautiful way.
Katrina, I’m so enjoying your blogs (at long last). I started reading them recently, and find comfort and wisdom in your words. Thank you for bringing them into my life 🙂
What a gift, what a tribute! I aspire to have a relationship such as you have with your husband, someone who really sees you, loves you and gifts you. It is enough for me me just put my hands in prayer position and say, namaste.
I would love to win a copy of your husband’s wonderful gift and have your upcoming book on my read list. I read you all the time and comment seldom.
I love reading your blog and sharing them with my family and friends. I love the stories you shared about the gifts your father and husband gave you and your Mother. I sometimes think about starting a blog but do not have the talent for writing that you have. But sometimes I “dream” about doing it anyway. I think sharing stories and taking the time to listen to each other is so important. I have a number of older people in my life, with whom I talk to on the phone quite often. I think listening to them and sharing my stories with them too, is a very important thing. We do not always listen as much as we should, as we hurry through our “busy” days.
What a lovely gift from your husband. I would love to win a copy of this book.
What a wonderful gift from the heart!
What a beautiful, beautiful story. Thank you for sharing it with us. And it is no surprise to read that your devoted husband is the same kind of thoughtful, generous, loving man as your father. Wishing you joy and peace in the New Year.
I was one of your first reviewers of The Gift of a Ordinary Day, as a fan from Mittenstrings for God days. I have read this blog since its inception, grateful for you and your writing weekly. I’m looking forward to your Magical Journey, and I would love a copy of the View from Your Window to pour over as well. Thank you for all you have done, are doing and will do. Wishing you peace of mind and gentleness with yourself on your book tour… Polly Castor
I loved this post. History repeating itself through thoughtful
gift-giving. That’s really beautiful.
I am new to this space and love the few stories I’ve read just this month. They always make me feel peaceful and reflective. Looking forward to your Magical Journey book. I wish you luck welcoming it into the world in the new year : )
Thank you for sharing another beautiful story with all of us. I discovered your book, The Gift of an Ordinary Day, while in a bookstore in Wolfeboro, NH for a ski weekend with my family nearly 3 years ago. I’ve been reading your blog posts ever since. I would love to receive a bound copy of your posts, Katrina. I’m confident you will make two of your fans very happy.
Katrina – What a lucky woman you are to have such a thoughtful husband. I am sure that project took him many hours and it was a labor of love. I would love to win this book.
What a wonderful gift! All that I asked for this year was a copy of your new book, but when my husband found that it wasn’t available until January he bought me this iPad (upon which I am composing this comment) so that I have something upon which to do my own writing! I too am raising 2 boys and after reading The Gift of an Ordinary Day I decided it was time to do what many have asked me to do…to put my stories in print. Of course, nowadays, that means online. I’m leaving a career in academia to see what the world of focusing on my 10 and 12 year old boys and writing has in store for me. Thanks for being an inspiration!!
What a gift to receive–the thought and time that went into your gift, and the sleigh your father presented your mother–that is the true gift. The time and thought you put into this space is also a gift. Thank you for making space at your windowsill for all of us, Katrina.
A Happy New Year to you and yours! Sincerely, Lisa
I am so thankful for you and for what you share with us…thank you, Katrina. Your story brings me back to my favorite gift from my husband, which was a book he handmade after taking a course in bookmaking. He re-typed every piece of journal writing that a treasured student had written over the course of two years. My husband would disappear to his workshop until the wee hours, to give me the most beautiful gift for my 30th birthday. A labor of love. Thank you for sharing your gift!
I would love to win
Both of these gifts are among the most beautiful and creative ones I have ever heard about. I would love to have a copy of this blog- I read faithfully but seldom comment. Thanks for the gift of grace you bring here.
Katrina, I cried when I read about the gift from your husband–and the one from your father too. It would be a huge honor to receive a copy of your special book. Your writing inspires my writing. As Sharon said in the blog you linked to above–I want what you have. That is the ability to connect with others in my writing and to give back in some lovely way to others. You have that gift. Thank you for sharing it so beautifully on your blog.
What a beautiful story about precious gifts. Thanks for sharing.
Rereading your book The Gift of an Ordinary Day over these sometimes hectic holidays. Spending more quiet time with our son who’s home from college. Thank you for this gift of awareness through your genuine and gentle musings.
May we all “read” each other just a little better in order to truly give from the heart. You are an inspiration in your gentleness and your family values.
Thank you.
Hi Katrina
I have written to you previously via email and you responded with such kind and gentle words in regards to our daughter and her ongoing struggle with illness.
Your words brought me much comfort, at that time and continue to do so.
I was touched that you took time out of your busy life to write to me, a stranger on the other side of the world…thank-you.
Go well , go gently and bravely into the New Year…
Best Wishes,
Maria Kirchner
Australia
It’s the love that I find tucked inside your blog, your books and the walls of your home that keeps me coming back for more. Happy New Year!!
I am so inspired by your writing, and am happy every time I see you’ve written a new post. What a heartfelt labor of love your husband gave you, and how beautifully you write about it. When I read this post, I understood what it means to truly be “for” someone. Beautiful. Thank you for sharing your precious life with us, your readers. All the best for 2013 for you, Katrina.
What a heartfelt and special gift from your husband! It would be such an honor to receive a copy as a gift from you.
I discovered your book, Mitten Strings For God, when I was a new mom to a beautiful little girl. I waited a long time to be given the opportunity to be her mom, and I was all too aware how fleeting this special time was going to be. I didn’t want to waste one precious moment. With your gentle guidance and because you so graciously shared your experiences, I have learned to treasure my time with her and always remember what is important to me during this journey through motherhood. I have since read your other book and am looking forward to reading your newest (congratulations, by the way!!). Your words never fail to inspire me. Thank you, and all the best to you!
Katrina,
What a precious gift your husband gave to you as it shows the incredible respect he has for you and your work. I love seeing your emails pop up in my inbox and know that each entry will inspire me. I have gone back and read many of your past blog entries and would be honored to have a copy of this loving gift by your husband. I too respect your gift as a writer and cannot wait to read your new book. I wish you great joy in 2013 and look forward to each of your blog posts in my inbox! ox, Sarah
Katrina,
Reading your blog or your book, always, consistently makes me …stop. I think, I reflect and always come away feeling stronger, calmer, and feel as though you just reminded me of something that I already know deep inside but it often becomes buried with the busyness and noise of my life.
Thank you for giving this to me time after time-
Gail
Katrina, as I read the story of your mother’s horse and your father’s sleigh restoration, I visualized it all as a beautifully illustrated children’s book. Then I continued reading and saw that you are probably going to have your hands full caring for not one, but two new books. I would love to receive a copy of A View From My Window, but based on the 162 other comments, my chances don’t seem that likely. I hope such an outpouring of responses will prompt Steve to head right on back to the printing press. If there was an “Order now” button on your website, I would have already purchased my own copy! It looks like 2013 is going to be an incredibly exciting year for you, my friend! Thank you again for all your generous love and support in helping me get me book out into the world in 2012. I can’t wait to share the story of our meeting in an upcoming blog post! WIth love and blessings, Kasey
What a beautiful gift! I am the mother to two sets of twins and your books have been the best “parenting books” for me. I am one to seek out advice from older and wiser moms and I love that even though I don’t know you, I can pop open your books and find advice. Happy New Year!
oh. my. gosh.
that is the most romantic story ever.
tears.
what a beautiful testimony to love
~he was really saying: “I see you. I know who you are and I know what you love, and I honor that.”
You have been blessed with both a wonderful father, and husband. It’s inspiring to know such people exist. God bless, and Happy New Year
In tears reading this post… For the loving gifts of both your husband and father and for the rekindled passion your mother found in horses. My own horse passed away four years ago when my son was a year old. Now, much like your mother, with two kids and working for my husband, I don’t see another in my future anytime soon. I hope I have the courage to get back in the saddle like she did.
Peace to you this New Year.
What a wonderful gift. I am crossing my fingers that I may win a copy. I hope you have had a joyous Christmas week and I wish you peace and light in the year 2013.
Katrina, Your books and your posts have meant so much to me. You’ve been a great comfort and a friend, even though we’ve never met. Thank you so much.
New to your books and to your blog and very grateful, as 2012 comes to a close and I attempt to find more balance, peace and satisfaction in my life, that I have discovered both. Thank you and Happy New Year. Rachel
Oh, my word. What a thoughtful gesture on your husband’s part. I, too, keep your postings in three-ring binders, as little something extras that have kept me inspired between The Gift of an Ordinary Day and the upcoming Magical Journey and hopefully on into the future. Thank you so much for everything you do for all of us…we so appreciate you! Many, many wishes for a peaceful and warm New Year! Enjoy!
Husbands are wonderful! The true gift of Christmas is sharing our love with our loving family. We are blessed.
Lois
A truly thoughtful and wonderful gift. Thanks for sharing and giving us the chance to share in that gift.
What a wonderful gift from both your father and husband. It really is the thought that counts. Happy New Year!
What a beautiful story! As usual, I am moved to tears by not only what you say, but how you say it. Thanks so much for sharing.
Wow – what a gift, what a treasure. Thank you for sharing it with us. Thanks for sharing yourself.
Hi Katrina,
I also am a loyal reader of your blog but have not posted a comment as of yet. I am more of a visual artist, but your words echo in my soul and define so many of my feelings perfectly. Your words are as beautiful to me as art and I’ve been a follower since I read Gift of an Ordinary Day many years ago! I would love to own your words in a book. What a beautiful thoughtful gift from your husband!!Happy 2013 to you!
Katrina,
You are a source of light and peace to all who read your work. Your posts always seem to quiet my furtive anxious mind and it is not a wonder at all that your husband bound those words together. Gifts beget gifts.
Thank you and Happy New Year!
Lisa from Winona, MN
What a beautiful, beautiful story about two incredible men. You are truly blessed!
Julia
I have never commented, but I have been a faithful reader since having two boys of my own and discovering “Mitten Strings for God”. I find so much Truth in what you write and as I approach 40 this next year I understand where your mother was at the same age. What wonderful gifts from both your father and husband! Thank you as always for sharing your stories.
There is something magical when someone outside of ourselves finds beauty and wisdom in our words. To have them gifted back to you is a treasure indeed.
What a beautiful gift! Thank you for the ongoing gifts that your writings bring to me and many.
Beautiful! Happy for you, and wishing you continued success with your writing!
Wow – what a treasure. I would be honored to hit the (random) jackpot and hold this in my hands!
What a wonderful gift – I have often thought that a book of your blog posts would be an excellent idea. A husband who sees the real person in his wife is a also a wonderful gift.
I always enjoy reading your work…blog or books. It helps as I try to keep my family and myself grounded in a busy world.
Happy New Year!
Though I’ve only been visiting the blog for about a year, I always leave inspired. Today is no exception. These are lovely, lovely stories, Katrina. Thanks so much for sharing them with us.
Katrina,
I am looking forward to meeting you in person at Lil Omm this month. Reading your candid and inspirational words in Gift of an Ordinary Day, Mitten Strings for God, and your blog has helped me, as a young mother, to search for and rejoice in the little things that make life so sweet. Wow, the stories about your dad making the sleigh for your mom and your husband making this newest book for you made me smile and smile. My own husband often surprises me with efforts like this, and reading your words today are so well-timed. Just today, when I told him our dear friend lost her new and meaningful earring in the pool, my husband decided to take on a secret mission and head to the pool secretly to find it for her. And, lo and behold, he found it. You have taught me to even moreso cherish these wonderful and thoughtful efforts that those in our life do for and around us.
Happy holidays,
Stephanie
As others have said such heart warming and joyous stories!! I LOVE this site, your inspiration and the words of others. I would cherish the book and advanced ordered the one coming out soon.
Katrina, I cannot wait for your book to arrive on my doorstep in 8 more days. I just posted your book trailer on my Facebook page. You have such a remarkable way of putting into words exactly what is on my mind and in my heart. Truly a God-given talent. You are amazing!
Most of us do not realize that we are writing our book every day as we go on about living the life we have on this earth. Wonderful opportunity that your husband made avaailable to us here. Happy new year from Dakota
Katrina,
Your words bring both tears to my eyes and joy to my soul. Thank you for helping me see the grace in the everyday, that most precious time of all. So often I wish we could just sit and have a cup of tea together; and then I realize that through your writings, we already are. 🙂
Truly an amazing gift….
Katrina,
Amazing. What a wonderful gift.
Your words are a gift to all that read them. Many blessings to you and your family.
Lisa
Katrina,
You truly have an awesome gift of sharing thoughts and feelings — so many times you give “words” to how I feel in my heart. I’m grateful to you for this. Congratulations on your new book — I’ve already pre-ordered my copy.
Happy New Year!
Mary
Your father’s and husband’s gifts to the women in their lives brought tears.
Vivid memories of the sleigh just flashed before me!And your Dad’s endless hours restoring it.
Recently,I was reviewing pictures from the past and found several of you riding in the ring at Miles Slip Road!Also found were countless pictures of you and Little John in your youth!Several included Joanne and I am so glad to have had you as a part of her life.I also thought about Christmas holidays that all of us were together….one I fondly remember, I gave you a bronze horse I had cherished as a child and how it held a place of honor on your mantle.
Thank you for being you, then and now.
Much love, Carolyn
What an amazing gift from your husband. I hope that in this coming year I can become more like your father, your husband, and you, and truthfully say to the loved ones in my life, “I see you. I know who you are and I know what you love, and I honor that.”
I want to wish you a beautiful New Year. You are a lucky woman to have such a wonderful husband that shares so deeply in your interests. It is in those small details that love comes through loud and clear. More than with any store bought gift. I am so looking forward to your new book. Your writing touches my heart as I see myself in many of your experiences. Thank you for the love you put in your work. I am grateful.
Your writing always lifts me up. Thank yo for sharing your heart with your readers.
Katrina,
Thank you for sharing your life, and beauty, with all of us!
What a beautiful gift your husband gave you. It would be such an honor to win a copy of such an extraordinary book.
As 2012 comes to an end, I wish you the very best in 2013, and I want to thank you for all your books and all your blog posts over the years. They have been an inspiration and have warmed my heart.
Happy New Year!
What a special and loving gift from you husband. Your words are a true inspiration to so many. Thank you for what you do and for bringing focus to the important things in life.
In a world where so many have lost the spirit of giving and are mired in the commercialization of the holidays, it was so refreshing to read the stories of the giving and receiving of two gifts that came from the heart–and were received by the heart, as well. May 2013 be your best year yet!
Katrina, i have been reading your blog since the very beginning….i have each and every one of your blogs printed out. Can’t wait for your new book. Already placed order at B & N. Would love to have a copy of your bound blogs….so count me in. Keep those blogs coming….i usually start my day at work by clicking your website for an update.
In my journey of life, celebrations and sorrows, I have been blessed to find your blog when seeking additional courage! Thank you for your sharing!
K, what a sweet, sweet thing. Like capturing teeny moments of sunshine in a jar. So glad he did that for you.
Dear Katrina,
I am fairly new to your blog, but I found your first two books last year, read them, loved them, and immediately passed them on to my daughter who has two young sons, the first diagnosed as highly funtioning autistic. There is so much wisdom there. Barnes & Noble just delivered your new book to my mailbox and I began reading it last night. I know it will bring me comfort, new ideas, and challenges. My four children are grown with their own lives, and my husband died suddenly 3 years ago. I have been discovering anew who I am as a single adult and taking my time to hopefully do it right. Thank you for sharing yourself with all of us and blessings to you and your wonderful family! What extraordinary Christmas gifts.
Katrina,
2012 has certainly had its challenges including the passing of my Mom. It has been a year of reflection and contemplation. I have learned a lot about myself and those around me. Some it good… Some of it not so much.
I am a new reader and would very much enjoy the opportunity to read your new book moving forward into 2013.
Kelly Morrissey
What a treasure it would be to own so many of your beautiful stories. May your New Year be blessed!
Your words have truly been a gift to me. I feel a connection because I too have two sons two years apart…I feel I am right behind in my journey as they are a few years younger then yours…I am so grateful for your voice of reason, understanding and hope…..thank you. Have a new year full of wonderful moments!
While I don’t often comment on your posts, I read each one, enjoying the moments, the triumphs and frustrations with you. What a wonderful gift you were give for both you and all your family – especially your sons. Happy New Year to you and your family.
Hi Katrina, your book “The Gift of An Ordinary Day” was a lifechanger for me. You helped me realize that I wasn’t frustrated with my husband and daughter, that I simply needed a change of scenery and needed a home where, when I looked out the window, I saw open space instead of more houses. Without realizing this, I could be divorced and unhappy; instead, I am still happily married and blissfully at peace in our new home. Thank you so much for sharing your gift with the world, and most personally, with me. I would love a copy of your husband’s precious gift.
Katrina,
Your book “The Gift of an Ordinary Day” has become a dearly treasured gift that has brought me great joy & inspiration. I have enjoyed and shared both your book and your blog with many of my dearest friends, and I so look forward to your new book.
Thank you for the gift of your insights and your gratitude that you so readily share with us all.
All the best for the future.
Karen Peterson
HI
I come here to this place by way of Clover Lane…A sweet blog by Sarah who
absolutely loves you. And I can see why.
Thanks for this lovely surprise!
Carol
Katrina,
Happy New Year….
Glad you are so fortunate to have a partner in life who sees you and is so thoughtful and caring… a beautiful story.
I read your blog faithfully and get so much personally from it… thank you for entering me in your “drawing” to receive one of these one of a kind beautiful books.
My sister Terry Lee posted your website on hers and I was inspired to check you out. I am very happy I did, you are inspirational at a time in my life when I need to be inspired. Thank you!
Joan Johanson
Two Shabby Chicks
Clinton, Ct 06413
I often save your blogs in print form to read and reread later. Your writing takes me to a place inside my self that wants to be heard.
What an incredible gift of gratitude your husband provided you.
With best wishes for continued success and sharing!
Laurie
I have recently found your blog after reading Mitten Strings for God. I enjoyed every bit of it and look forward to reading your other books. I am thankful for your encouraging words.
As I read your beautiful words this morning I find myself settle into peace….thank you for sharing your life.
Thank you for sharing the story of your father’s love for your mother and your husband’s love for you. I am a big fan of your writing and have gifted your books to many women in my life. I recently spent five days in NYC with my 17 year old daughter to commemorate her senior year as she prepares to graduate from high school this spring. For Christmas, I created a book for her which included photos, memories and captions celebrating our trip and more importantly, our relationship. I would love a copy of your “second” suprise book! Thank you for your willingness to part with it!
Katrina,
What an amazingly thoughtful gesture on your husbands part. I would be honored to receive a copy of this rare piece of art. Your words have comforted me and gotten me through some rough times these past couple of years.
Many thanks –
Thanks for sharing and the chance to enjoy your “magical journey”!
What a lovely way to make your ordinary days into a magical gift…love finds a way to go on and on….
What a wonderful gift. I can’t imagine MY husband doing this!
What a beautiful expression of love and such a legacy for your family to have. I am an aspiring writer and I keep a blog myself, this post inspired me to keep going, unsure of where it will all take me, and if nothing else a keepsake for my family. My best to you in 2013!
How lovely! How thoughtful! Both gifts were such acts of love. Your blogs and your books provide such sensibility and comfort-they leave me with a calm sense of peace. I look forward to your new book as I continue to find my way down the path of children graduating from college and leaving to make their own lives. My path seems to have more branches now and I have the freedom to choose but am honestly not sure which ones to take.
I am so thankful that your editor encouraged you to start a site, this blog. Having the opportunity to read your words on a regular basis is a blessing to women and moms everywhere. i can’t wait to read your new book and see glimpses of the book your husband had published for you. what an amazing gift to you and your children.
May 2013 bring you closer to the things you love most.
Blessings,
Helen
What a wonderful gift! Thank you for the offer to share it!
katrina,
thank you for sharing your life with all of us who find such tremendous joy in your writings… which are already a gift.
i am anxiously awaiting magical journey, and will share it with my friends as i have ordinary day…
i love what you do, and i honor it.
xxoo
Dear Katrina, your words are so full of healing, love and life. When I read your blogs I feel the stress of the day melt away and actually, the love of God fill my heart. You have a special gift. And thankyou for always sharing it with us. I am so anxious to get your new book. You always give us a reason to take time out of a busy day and “catch our breath”. Thankyou.
my heart is swelling with gratitude to/for you, your husband and this story of love. thank you. your writing is a soothing balm for my soul.
I am so delighted when I look at my emails, and there is one from you. You are very wise and also down-to-earth, and have a way of putting your thoughts into words that are very meaningful.
My husband made me a wooden jewelry hanger, for the wall, from a weeping cherry tree that we had on our family’s property–a start from an old, old tree on my grandmother’s property. That property was sold, the house torn down, and was being turned into businesses and apartments–a sad thing for our family. Our tree grew well for a number of years but during a summer drought, we lost it. Without my knowing it, my husband saved the wood after cutting the tree down and surprised me with the gift of something made from that very special tree. He also made two little boxes from the wood, which he gave to my daughter and her husband, from that tree.
Gifts like that are very precious. What a great gift your father gave your mother–and your husband gave to you.
I choked up at your husband’s gift. What a perfect, perfect, perfect moment. You have a keeper there.
And I would absolutely treasure a copy, should I win. And if I don’t win, that’s okay. I am just delighted that there IS a copy of this blog book out in the world. 30, even. 🙂
I feel genuine tears running down my cheeks – at the thought of such a special gift from your husband. You are indeed blessed! and I treasure all of your words that I have come across. Thank you for sharing yourself with me.
What a wonderful and special gift that will be shared and treasured by you and your family, I hope I get to treasure one too 🙂 best wishes for 2013 and I can’t wait to get my preordered book on the 8th!
Katrina, what a beautiful gift from your husband! Just wanted you to know that I only read your book “Gift of an Ordinary Day” last year for the first time during the summer, and loved it so much that all my friends got copies this year for Christmas! All of us are or were working Moms whose children are all grown now! Thanks for your beautiful way of putting our thoughts into words! Looking forward to your next book coming out on my birthday! And, thanks so much for helping me to appreciate “the gifts of an ordinary day!”
What a touching story. Your father was a wonderful man to make a sled after a long day working as a dentist to please your mom. You then married an equally terrific man who created the book for you. Children do learn what they live.
Your story confirms my belief that the thought and excution of a special gift is the real gift, because it comes from he heart. I would love to see your special book that your husband so lovingly gave you .
I’m counting the minutes until Jan. 8 and the arrival of my pre-ordered copy of “Magical Journey” in the mail. I discovered your “Mitten Strings for God” two years ago when my children were 7, 5 and just under 1. It’s been my constant companion since, and so has “The Gift of an Ordinary Day” — can’t tell you how many times I’ve dipped into them after reading them in one breath a couple times each. But your words have become central to my day-to-day life over the last 8 months or so, since my husband’s diagnosis of cancer. Please know that you’ve been an endless source of solace and strength, and I’ll always be grateful to you for that and will always thirst for everything you write. I recognize my own husband’s love in the gifts of your father and husband. To have your lifelong companion be such a sensitive and generous witness to your essence as a human being… what more can one ask for? Wishing you and your loved ones every blessing in 2013.
Although I would love to have an opportunity to win A View from My Window, I just wanted to tell you how much your writing inspires me. I read “Mitten Strings for God” just after having my second child, and your stories have given me hope and compassion for myself as a mother. I hope that one day I can share stories of my experiences as eloquently as you have in both your books. I look forward to reading Magical Journey. I am so glad I discovered your blog!
Wow, Katrina! You never stop “giving”; not only of your words and experiences, but of your generous gifts of random draws for what I would gladly purchase for myself and friends anyway. But this special gift from your special Steve is priceless… To you most definitely and it would be for me as well. You, Katrina, are a gift and I am grateful for all you do.
I love your books, and look forward to your blogposts! Can’t wait for Magical Journey to come out next week.
Thank you for writing. And parenting, and wrestling with big questions, and continuing to grow yourself, and then writing about all of that. You are a gift.
And what a wonderful gift from your husband.
Another reader summed it up beautifully. Reading your blog always gives me “peace and a moment of quiet in busy days.”Love both your books. Looking forward to your latest and would love to have “The View from My Window.”
Happy New Year! What a wonderful gift from your husband!
Thank you – for sharing your story, your family, your home and your heart with us. It means so much to have someone show me the way…I am already so sad thinking about someday living in our home without my children. Your thoughts and gentle guidance give me some peace – knowing that there is life – even fulfillment – beyond raising little ones…and they help me appreciate the moments I have with them now all the more. Many blessings to you and your lovely family in the new year.
Thank you for this opportunity. Your words inspire me!
Katrina—Thanks for your years of inspirational words! What I appreciate most is that when I read and re-read your words at different times in my life, whether in the books or the blog, I discover something new. I know this is because your passages are written in such a way to touch us —- wherever we are on this “Magical Journey”.
My husband does not think of romantic and lovely gifts as your Father and Husband did—and there was a time in my life that reading your post would have upset me–because I WANTED what you have! However, after 25 years of marriage and raising 3 sons to College ages and beyond, I look forward to the “ordinary days” where my low-key and gentle husband favors me with very funny, inexpensive gifts (think Chia Pets) that have gifted me and my family with many hours of laughter and stories for a rainy day! The Beauty is that I not only accept the things I cannot change about my husband but embrace the grace with which he loves me.
I look forward to your words new —and then new again at “this time in my life”
Katrina – my dearest friend from college suggested I read your book.
She shares the same insight about the journeys we travel in life.
Like you, I have two boys, one an athlete and the other a free-spirited thinker. They are the reason it’s taken me so long to savor each chapter. In between all the meals, laundry, homework, games and photo outings (I’m the volunteer photographer for little league, football and basketball), I’ve pulled your book out of my purse and enjoyed every word.
I knew Maura wouldn’t steer me wrong!
She struggles now with her own two children and a husband who is terminally ill. She’s a writer and a scholar, and a woman with an open mind and heart.
I would love to send her a copy of your husband’s wonderful gift to you — or at the very least, a copy of your new book.
The good news is I need only to wait another few days!
Thanks for sharing your wonderful observations and experiences. What a breath of fresh air!!
Denice Laveris
Stamford, CT
That story made me smile in a big way – talk about a priceless gift. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and life with others through your blog. It is obvious that so many people appreciate it.
Oh, I’d love to win a copy of your book. I just discovered your blog today. After spending almost the entire day reading your wonderful and thoughtful book “The Gift of an Ordinary Day” I sat down to see if perhaps you have a blog! I will be coming back here often because your thoughts on life resonate with mine. Blessings, Marilyn
Beautiful. I love everything you write, I am so excited to go and get your new book this week.
What treasures: an extremely sensitive and caring husband, a book, and the memory of his thoughtfulness to last a lifetime and beyond.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts every week over these past years. Every week there is something we can all take away and from this post, I love this one: “I see you. I know who you are and I know what you love, and I honor that.”
What a thoughtful gift from your husband! And how thoughtful of you to share as well. I adore Mitten Strings for God as well as The Gift of an Ordinary Day, while also looking forward to reading Magical Journey. This opportunity to receive your special edition book, though, sounds especially magical. Thanks!
Dearest Katrina, the view from my window downunder is in complete contrast to yours, as I live on the other side of the world and it is currently summertime. I gaze outside and the heat of the sun has turned the paddocks golden and the cows & sheep seek relief under the shade of the gum trees.
But, the view is also identical, like we are twins with a common perception. Our mother (nature) beckons us to gaze upon her calling “look at me, look at me, look at me” (in an aussie accent!!). We respond and receive our own ‘Magical Moment’, which nurtures us with peace and newfound energy to face our daily motherly tasks.
I pray that all of us in the sisterhood of this blog, in their own ways, can also duplicate your ‘gift from the heart’, that you received from your adoring husband.
Love always, your sis downunder Cheri
Katrina,
What a wonderful, beautiful gift from your husband! Thank you for also sharing the story of your Mother’s sleigh. Like all of your stories, these truly resonate. Ever since Mitten Strings for God, I have been a huge fan. Of the countless books I turned to while raising my little ones, that one touched me deepest. I pre-ordered Magical Journey and can’t wait for it to arrive! A very happy new year to you!
Thanks you for the inspiration to slow down and enjoy the “dailiness” of life. I am nearly through your book “Mitten Strings for God” and it has reminded me to slow down with my son, to live in the moment of his questions and curiosity and to love him for the unique and wonderful person he is.
Beautiful post. Beautiful gift.
Dear Katrina, I have been reading your blog in Germany for the past two years and I can’t tell you how much your writings have been inspiring me in so many ways.I can’t wait to get one of the first copies of your new book in Germany soon!And of course I love your husbands gift and the love and thoughtfulness he has put into it. I also had started to print some of your most inspiring blog posts and collect them in a binder, because as much as I like electronic reading, I still so much prefer words on real paper….Happy New Year and all my best wishes for joy and appreciation of your new book all over the world!
Words can not express my joy in being winner of this book. Most sincere thank you
I’m just now getting caught up on your blog after the holiday’s so I know I won’t win the book, but still had to come share my thoughts while reading this post.
First thought is how alike you are to both your mother and father. I loved how your mother pushed herself to bring back to life something she loved so dearly at a time in her life when it would have been much easier just to coast (remind you of anyone)? You clearly possess her spirit, drive and passion to feel and do… to not miss a minute of life. Your father… to be able to tirelessly work on a project, to infuse love and thought into it night after night, with the insight of just how important it would be to your mother… well that is what you do with all of us through your books. Then I got to the part about your Steve, and I was filled with happiness for you that your partner in life gets you and possesses a bit of what made your father so special. I have a big contented smile on my face and it’s not even my life I’m so happy about.
Dear Katrina.
I always save your email until I can sit down and read your posts, completely present in the moment. I guess this was my first opportunity 🙂
My body was covered in chills as I read about the book your husband gave you. What a gift beyond words!
Your blog is an essential ingredient on my journey through life and spiritual growth. Thank you for sharing yourself with the world.
I keep favorite thoughts and quotes in a file … I’ve added this one from you(and your dad) … “I see you. I know who you are and I know what you love, and I honor that.”
Love and light in 2013.
Katrina, I absoluted loved Magical Journey. Savoring every moment I spent reading, making myself read only one to two chapters a time, trying to make the book last longer and wanting not to let it go. I’ve been on a journey for sometime looking for something different, asking myself many of the questions you were asking. I keep perusing book stores, hoping a book would find me and then, just last week, your book spoke to me. It was magical, everything I needed to hear. Your writing is beautiful. Thank you.
This is one of the most loving and romantic things I’ve ever read about. What a gift. What a husband.
As your friend Marie said, “There’s so much goodness in the world…”
Katrina, this post has stuck in my mind and I’m wondering if your husband can share how he transformed the blog posts into a book? I’m interested in producing something similar as a gift to my daughter.
Thanks!
No way! Do you still have copies of this book of your writing? Can I buy one?