“What really knocks me out is a book, when you’re all done reading it, you wish that the author that wrote it was a terrific friend of yours and you could call him up on the phone whenever you felt like it.”
–Holden Caufield, Catcher in the Rye
Is there a reader alive who hasn’t entertained some version of this fantasy? Sometimes, if you’re lucky and the stars line up, the author of one of your favorite books suddenly shows up smack dab in the middle of your life. This year, it happened to me.
I was sitting in my editor’s office in New York last fall, perusing her shelves, when a book jacket caught my eye: a photo of two Bosc pears and a granny smith apple ripening on a window sill. A title that resonated through my being like the sound of a perfectly tuned note struck on a piano: And I Shall Have Some Peace There. A subtitle that intrigued: “trading in the fast lane for my own dirt road.” A name that sounded vaguely familiar (where had I heard that name before?): Margaret Roach.
I dilly-dallied for a moment, trying to figure out a way to get her to offer me one of the precious advance reading copies (“ARC’s” in the trade, which are actually bound, uncorrected proofs that are more expensive to produce than finished books and therefore not to be carelessly tossed to every curious passerby).
“Oh,” my editor said, waving her hand, “your books are really different. Margaret used to be the editorial director of Martha Stewart Omnimedia (that’s why I knew the name!). And then, well, she just gave it all up and ran away. To a little cottage in the country. . .”
By then my begging hand was out, unabashed. I wasn’t leaving the room without a copy of that book in my bag.
Flash forward a few weeks, to October and the New England Booksellers’ Show in Providence, Rhode Island. I had been invited, along with a slew of other New England authors, to attend a cocktail party for booksellers. Our task was simply to sit at our respective tables, sip wine, sign books, and meet the men and women who, against all odds, continue to fling open their doors every morning and sell real books to readers who still prefer printed words on paper to pixels on a screen.
I felt lucky to be there. And yet, in the way of someone who has spent most of the last three years sitting at her kitchen table in a pair of sweatpants, typing, I’d obsessed for two days over what to wear to this very public event. (Every sweater I owned was covered with little pills; my dresses were all too, well, dressy; my sturdy black knit pants seemed so old-fashioned and corporate.) The truth is, I haven’t been to a cocktail party in years, not since I left my own publishing career to raise babies and read short stories from home and try my hand at writing. Before leaving home that morning, I’d found a $22 necklace in one of the two clothing stores in my town. Here was an affordable accessory that might place me in the 21st-century–big fat beads instead of tiny ones — hip and festive enough, I thought, to carry the day.
Two tables down from mine, I suddenly recognized a woman similarly dressed, right down to the safely nondescript black cardigan accented by a chunky necklace almost exactly like my own. Margaret! At some point, between bookseller conversations, we sought one another out. “I just read your book!” we both exclaimed, at the same time. And then, “Look at us, with the same necklace!” By the time we parted ways, we’d exchanged email addresses and phone numbers and promises to get together.
And get together we did. Since that rainy October evening, I’ve spent many a night at Margaret’s house, doing our middle-aged ladies’ version of a sleep-over. (Out for dinner at 5:30 or 6, tea in her little kitchen, off to our respective beds by nine or so, so we can get up early in the morning and commune with her cat Jack and chat about books and writing and life.)
On the face of it, I suppose, our books are different. Margaret is single, childless, a former high-powered executive who also happens to be a passionately knowledgeable gardener (her phenomenally popular garden blog, http://www.awaytogarden.com/, has been hailed by a New York Times reporter as “the best garden blog I’ve ever seen”). While she was being a mover and shaker in the fast-paced world of New York publishing, I was at home with my kids. While she was creating dazzling magazine spreads for Martha Stewart, I was trying to figure out what to make for dinner. While she was becoming an expert on ground covers and how to graft a tomato plant, I was attempting to guide my son through the college application process.
And yet. The thing that Margaret and I both realized right away was that in the ways that really count, our journeys — and our books — are far more alike than different. Over and over again, as I read her galley, I found myself turning over page corners, making little stars and exclamation points next to her paragraphs, thinking to myself, “Exactly!”
Margaret realized that she could go on doing what she had always done, as she writes: “going to the office; returning from the office; going to the office; returning from the office.” Or, she could begin to envision a different sort of life altogether. She could walk away from who she’d been, and begin to discover who she might become. To do so, after a lifetime of reaching for the brass ring, meant confronting the question, “Who am I if I am not mroach@marthastewart.com any longer?”
Take away the staff, the New York office, the trappings of success, the glamour and glitz of Martha, and that question is not so very different, really, from the one that I found myself asking as my children grew up and my older son headed off to a life of his own: “Who am I if I’m not the 24/7 mom of Henry and Jack any longer?”
It is, I think, just a variation on the essential, haunting questions that we all ask ourselves as old identites are outlived, our lives irrevocably transformed by time. Change, it is said, is inevitable; growth is optional. My own yearning to continue to grow and learn and deepen is as fierce these days as ever. I keep searching for the lessons in the losses, the wisdom that is midlife’s hardwon compensation. And so, I’m always asking: What now? What matters? How can the life I live reflect the truth of who I really am ?
Reading Margaret’s book, I knew I’d found a soul mate (one who takes the time to notice the sights and sounds and smells of ordinary life); a fellow seeker, (one who happens to be really funny and exceedingly honest about her search and her own shortcomings); and a fast friend on the page. That we have become, as Holden would say, “terrific friends” in life as well has been one of the most glorious gifts of this year.
Over the last months, Margaret has sat me down in front of the WordPress dashboard and, in a series of tutorials, taught me how to “drive.” (This website, I’m certain, would not yet exist if it weren’t for her generosity.) She has offered to deliver care packages to my son at school; in a happy coincidence, he is thirty minutes from where she lives, which means that a visit to Jack always includes a visit with Margaret. She’s given me a bed whenever I want one, breakfasts and dinners, stories and advice, and, always, the perfect book to read at the perfect time.
Yesterday morning, Margaret and I sat at her kitchen table — her with green tea, me with my cup of strong coffee — plotting. Why not put our two more-alike-than-different books together, and offer them to YOU, our readers? Why not get everyone properly introduced, and reading together? And why not find out what books about journeys (both inner voyages and outer ones) and second life chapters have inspired you? We would love to know! Hence, today’s book give-away.
To Enter the Give-away
To enter to win one of four sets of books, comment here and on Margaret’s site, noting in both places the name of another book about personal transition that you identified with. Tell us why, too, if you wish. (Feel free just to say, “Count me in,” or “I want to win” — but if you feel like sharing an inspirational book title, and a sense of the “why” behind your choice instead, please do; all the better.)
Entries close at midnight Sunday, January 23, with winners to be drawn at random (using the tool at random [dot] org) and announced the next day.
Remember: Once you post your entry here, go visit Margaret to double your chances
I have been a Martha Stewart fan for years, and I always thought that Margaret was a very talented, integral part of Martha’s organization. I remember when she left, but never knew where she was headed. Thank you for letting me know, Katrina – I can’t wait to read her book!
Yes! Yes! To the authors/books already listed. I’d like to include “Broken Open” by Elizabeth Lesser.
And count me in!
Count me in…loved eat,pray,love…perfection…codependent no more…
Oh, I would soooo love to win a set of the books!!!! I hope I am blessed & lucky!! Make it a GREAT day!
~Cheryl
Thank you for this fantastic opportunity!
Appreciation of the ordinary is sacred.
Animal, Vegetable, Miracle by Barbara Kingsolver
Inspired us to change where we get our groceries ( bye bye Mr. Safeway!), get more connected with our larger community via our Farmers’ Market, and eat with the seasons. Life is Good!
Dear fellow writer, mother and tender-hearted woman. My “baby” is in college and suffering through a difficult time of poor decisions, loss of direction and love lorn heartache… It’s so hard to watch. I want to tuck him back securely in my womb – a notion I haven’t entertained since the night he clawed his way out of my nearly 20 years ago. Yet I’m finding a strange comfort in sharing his pain. Our family has been tested and the center has held. What a gift to have that assurance. Thank you so very, very much for your wisdom and beautiful words.
Not trying to increase my chances (I know it’s a random drawing), but…”Mitten Strings for God.” I’d somehow created my own SAHM version of the rat race, and this book opened my eyes to the importance of the everyday.
I’d love to get a set of books! One that I loved, not so much from the perspective of a personal journey as a shared one, is The Girls from Ames.
I am so thrilled to know of your book via your new friendship with Margaret… how exciting it is to ask that you please, count me in for both your and Margaret’s book giveaways… thanks you so much
Margaret says HI! I found you through her beautiful website and blog. I watched your video and, having raised two children also, felt your words tug at my heartstrings. I would love to have a copy of your book. Please count me in your give-away. Thank you.
Hi Katrina:
I am one of the lucky ones who can count you as a friend – albeit one who lives pretty far away.
It was wonderful catching up at Reunion and great reading your blog and keeping in touch intermittently through FB.
I’d love to win the books and have plenty of friends with kids heading off to college with whom I can share the extra copy of yours-and a young cousin with two little kids who’d certainly appreciate Mitten Strings :).
-Marianne
The French have a marvelous little phrase, les petit bonheurs (literal translation: the little joys) which encapsulate the core of yours and Margaret’s message. It is a mantra to me, when the little joy is happening, I say to myself, ah, les petit bonheurs. And they are always there, each and every day, if you are open to them.
Jack London’s The Call of the Wild does both, inspires because of the physical and emotional journey, made all the more interesting because the protagonist is a dog.
And the very accounting of how you and Margaret got to know each other is a little joy.
A few years ago, I read Good in Bed by Jennifer Weiner. While it is considered a fiction novel, I understand it is based on events in her life. At the time, I could really identify with the character and what she was going through.
“People with Dirty Hands”
by Robin Chotzinoff
I have loved the book Gift from the Sea by Anne Morrow Lindbergh since I was in my 20’s. It has been re-read many times. Two other books that have given me direction and purpose at different times are Tuesdays with Morrie by Mitch Albom and Your Money or Your Life by Joe Dominguez and Vicki Robin. I love your blog and would love to have personal copies of both your books. I am an early childhood parent educator and parenting is passion!
I am so glad that Margaret linked to your site and book. A book that has inspired me is “Gift from the Sea” by Anne Morrow Lindbergh. I am looking forward to reading both books!
One transition book I really liked was “Forty Acres and a Poodle”! It was very honest about what it’s like to be city slickers in the country — none of that rosy “how romantic this rustic life is” stuff!
–Johanna
I only wish I could of been seated at that kitchen table, mine would of been coffee, little skim. Feels good to dream!
blessings to all…
Julie Zoller
WOW, a chance to win both. The Gift of an Ordinary Day & and I shall have some peace there.
I am a very lucky person, my journey of changing my life started about he time I met Margaret, my life would not be the same and the journey not as interesting, full of laughter and tears. Would not trade them for the world. Now I have had the honor to meet Katrina. Looking forward to knowing her better.
I hope I win, good luck to everyone.
Katrina, from what I see here, I’ll be recommending your books to some friends who are facing empty nests. I’m glad you and Margaret teamed up for this.
My personal transition is the product of a lifetime, as I re-invent myself on a regular basis, due to new recognitions about myself. Although there *was* a definite turning point when I re-defined my personal definition of success, and chose to NOT be defined by my work, but rather by my person-hood.
It’s impossible to select only one “personal transition” book … from the fiction I read in my adolescence/young adulthood (“Atlas Shrugged” is about transition, as is “A Lantern in Her Hand” or “Miss Bishop”), to the non-fiction.
Madeleine L’Engle’s Crosswicks Trilogy and her Genesis Trilogy gave me a greater understanding of what it means to be human; Kathleen Norris’ “Cloister Walk” and Brennan Manning’s “Ragamuffin Gospel” helped me understand that God loves me, period. Not “if”, not “when” , not “unless..” just the simple reality “God loves ME.” Full stop, end of sentence.
Even Sue Grafton’s alphabet mystery series is full of personal transition for Kinsey Millhone, as is Rita Mae Brown’s Mrs Murphy series. Both have protagonists who grow and change through the course of the series.
Most recently, it would have to be Sara Stein’s 1990s paean to native plantings: “Noah’s Garden: Restoring the Ecology of Our Own Backyards.” She moved onto acreage in NY, delighting in the pheasants, the chipmunks, the birds. In true suburban fashion, she cleared the brush and cut the tall grasses, then noticed there were no longer any pheasants or chipmunks, and far fewer birds.
I could relate to that, as I live in a subdivision that used to be horse pastures, and do not remember seeing ANY honeybees last summer. Her story inspired me to rethink my plans for my almost-acre lot, and I’m hoping that my design changes will make the world a better place, if only for the birds and the bees, and those who love them.
How wonderful to be introduced to you via Margaret’s “Away to Garden Blog”. Facing yet another life changing journey after recently losing my beloved mom, I was thrilled to discover your wonderfully warm website. It has been my experience that nothing is as comforting as a circle of woman with their support & life gained wisdom. Books are to me like friends, & I look forward to reading The Gift of an Ordinary Day & I shall have some peace there.
“Growing Myself” – A Spiritual Journey Through Gardening written by Judith Handelsman. Yet another wonderful insightful read.
Please count me in!! I read “Gift from the Sea” by Anne Morrow Lindbergh every summer until it was worn and tattered. Luckily, I found “Mitten Strings” and then of course “The Gift of an Ordinary Day” and now I’m so looking forward to reading Margaret’s book! I can’t contain myself!! Thank you for your inspirational blog, Katrina. My husband and boys always know when you have posed, because I am glued to the computer screen, boiling water for tea and REFUSING to be disturbed. As this happens, my husband usually hands the box of tissues to me 🙂
I look forward to reading your book!
In addition to my post on Margaret’s site, I’d just like to add Depack Chopra, and Barbara Kingsolver to my list of favorites, which also includes you- and Margaret!
I have been waiting for Margaret’s book from the moment I listened to her read passages from it at her house. I was a guest during one of her promotional tapings and treated to her warm hospitality and local goodies too. I check in to see what’s new on her blog—it is always new and interesting. Watching your video clip, I feel like I am listening to my own heart and mind slightly mourning the passing of my son and daughter’s childhood. Masking a valiant attempt to celebrate their maturity but secretly longing for those snow days when everyone was home and it was cookie making time; or even, a sick day when I could make a bed on the couch for them and wait on them with ice pops and tea and damp washclothes to soothe their fevers. We loved to play the magic carpet game and survey all that could be seen in our imaginations from that flying craft. Those ordinary days to pass quickly
Dear Katrina,
A book that I went back to again and again when my children were little was Gifts of the Sea by Mrs. Lindburgh. This book kept me grounded and able to really appreciate where I was at the time with my children and I was able to appreciate that season of my life more because of that little book. I would read it every summer when we went to the beach – and it was always so muc fun when I found one of the shells she decribed in her book! Thank you for sharing this new book and your new friendship with Margaret with us. I have enjoyed her website already. Please count me in on the giveaway! Thank- you, Edie
What fun – I can say with all candor that I read your book and felt that Holden ish longing to meet you, know you. I feel immensely, outrageously grateful to have done so. And I’ve enjoyed reading Margaret’s words on her blog and look forward to her book!
In terms of “searching” tales – that’s the biggest category I read. I could mention Mennonite by Rhoda Janzen or Slow Love by Dominique Browning or Poser by Claire Dederer. But hands down my favorite has been Devotion by Dani Shapiro. No question.
One of the most inspiring books I have ever read was “The Last Lecture” by Randy Pausch. It’s filled with lots and lots of wisdom, and obviously deals with a completely different kind of transition. And as a result of this contest, I am learning about a whole host of other books that I want to read from reading the other posts!
Dear Katrina,
A book that I went back to again and again when my children were little was Gift of the Sea by Anne Morrow Lindbergh. This book kept me grounded and able to really appreciate where I was at the time with my children and I was able to appreciate that season of my life more because of that little book. I would read it every summer when we went to the beach – and it was always so much fun when I found one of the shells she decribed in her book! Thank you for sharing this new book and your new friendship with Margaret with us. I have enjoyed her website already. Please count me in on the giveaway! Thank- you, Edie
Hmmmm… my comment, posted sometime between 430 and 5pm, never appeared. Lost in the spam filter, perhaps?
Please count me in. I recommend a wonderful book by Marlo Morgan called “Mutant Message Down Under”. Thank you!
Margaret sent me! 🙂 Please count me in. I enjoyed reading the book, “Slow Love” by Dominique Browning. I read it during a long lull in work, so reading about someone else going through a period of underemployment and a change in professional direction was a comfort.
As a Mom to two boys who grow so quickly I am very interested in reading your book!
Ooh, I love a giveaway, but even more I love reading about the books that have helped guide your readers through challenging transitions.
“Gift of the Sea”, which has been mentioned several times, is also a favorite of mine. But the one I find myself going back to most, and recommending most often, is “Broken Open” by Elizabeth Lesser.
Thanks so much, Katrina, for the introduction to Margaret and the opportunity to get to know her (and myself) better through her writing.
Any author that quotes Rilke, Rumi *and* the clown, Wavy Gravy (“We’re all bozos on the bus, so we might as well sit back and enjoy the ride.”) is a friend of mine.
When the Heart Waits: Spiritual Direction for Life’s Sacred Questions by Sue Monk Kidd
A gentle story of learning to wait through life’s difficult transitions and allowing God to reveal the way in his own time ~ not ours.
Like you, I am a recent empty-nester, struggling mightily with the big (huge) “Now What?” question. I would love, love, love to read both these books!
Count me in. I just got home from a girls trip and took the book -The Gift Of An Ordinary Day- with me. I had not read any of Katrina’s books but the title spoke to me. One of the girls that went with me asked to take the book home with her and ofcourse I said yes. I am planning on buying many more to give my children and friends. I loved the book and now am going to get Mitten strings for god.
I already have my name in for Margarets book at the book store (And I shall have peace there.) I am very excited to get it and sit with my tea and read it.I am a gardener and know that I will love it. One more to pass on to my friends.
The Last Lecture is one of my favorites and suggest it to all my friends. Peace
Thanks so much for the opportunity to win these books. Just love reading about persons who have followed their hearts and went in search of their true selves. Into the Wild had to be a pivotal book for me. It truly spoke about leaving the ‘trappings’ of our materialistic society in search of something more. I then went whitewater rafting for the first time in my ‘old’ life, at 54, 10 years ago. It was also life-changing in a great way. Best to you!
Both of your books are on my “want to read soon” list! Two books that significantly impacted me at a time of major transition in my journey are: “Broken Open: How Difficult Times Can Help Us Grow” by Elizabeth Lesser, and “Simple Abundance” by Sarah Ban Breathnach. Thanks for the giveaway opportunity, and for inspiring me through your blog.
I found you at A Way to Garden. I can’t wait to read your book! One of my favorite novels is “The Shipping News”.
Please count me in for a chance to win!
thanks
Love the book Animal, Vegetable, Miracle by Barbara Kingsolver. This book increased my awareness of sustainable agriculture and the wonderful and tasty experience of eating locally. I now subscribe to a a CSA basket each year, and support my local farmer. A healthful transition!
One book that I’ve revisited many times for
its wisdom, insight, and humour was written
by a woman who lived through innumerable
transitions in her long and incredible lifetime:
Katharine Hepburn’s autobiography “Me”.
Before my daughter was born, I imagined that I would happily return to my legal career after a lengthy four-month maternity leave. And then I met her. After four fleeting months, I returned to what was now my job, and simply a way to make money, with a heavy heart. Actually, my heart was at home, sleeping in a light green bassinette or most likely cooing at my mother.
I discovered the book Mitten Strings for God — Reflections for Mothers in a Hurry just after she turned one. I devoured every page the first time through, and then I returned to linger over certain passages. I still read it, randomly opening the book to see what I will find.
Mitten Strings helped to me to find my equilibrium as a mother. Thank you, Katrina Kenison.
the book that has resonated with me deeply over the last few months is “This is Not the Story You Think It Is” by Laura Munson.
Thank you Katrina!
Love your writing, Katrina and…The Year of Magical Thinking.
Thanks!
Katrina, please count me in for the give- away/drawing. Your words continue to be my motivation to enjoy every moment with my two young boys to the fullest and to follow my dreams of being a writer myself. Thank you for your sharing your thoughts, your memories and your insight. I am so grateful for you.
After reading your latest blog entry tonight, I was excited to learn more about Margaret and her journey. I would love to win her new book.
Two books that helped me through the aftermath of treatment for breast cancer at age 45 were “Eat Pray Love” by Elizabeth Gilbert and “Broken Open” by Elizabeth Lesser. Next on my journey was your book Katrina – The Gift Of An Ordinary Day, which showed up just as I was sending my first born away to school. I love how these books have a way of finding you – at exactly the time you need them.
Count me in! I would love to read this ‘new’ book, especially if you loved it that much.
Two books that moved me are 1) Here If You Need Me, by Kate Braestrup. It’s the amazing story of a woman who lost her husband in a sudden work accident and it changed her life in ways she never dreamed possible. I love her writing style, and her story. And 2) A Broom of One’s Own, by Nancy Peacock. Ms. Peacock is a writer who cleans houses to pay the bills. I loved her observations about life, simplicity, and the people she knew so well by the time she spent ‘invisibly’ in their houses.
I’m crossing my fingers that I win the contest but either way, this new book will be on my bookcase in the next few months…
Hugs, my NH friend,
Judy
justonefoot.blogspot.com
YOU are the author that I would love to become fast friends with! Every word in your books resonates with me and my life with my 6 children. Thanks for your generosity in sharing your wisdom with the world!
I would be simply overjoyed to win this give away!
A book that I found moving was Anne LeClaire’s Listening Below the Noise.
I’m in!
Along with your book, my other favorite in this genre is Anne Morrow Lindbergh’s “Gift from the Sea.”
“Then a ploughman said, Speak to us of Work. And he answered, saying: You work that you may keep pace with the earth and soul of the earth.”. From – The Prophet by Gibran
This excerpt definitely helps you jump start your work day and then I get a chance to share it AND win a book? Life is good…!
Katrina,
Thanks for sharing your love of this book and its author with your readers. I will have to read it myself! Would love to win it, but even if I don’t, I’ll buy it (in print, NOT in pixels). A book that resonated with me is The Middle Place, by Kelly Corrigan. Wonderful memoir by a young mom dealing with breast cancer while her beloved father also deals with his own cancer. Heartfelt, yet also funny. She’s subsequently written a book called Lift.
After just coming off from our own “soul-sisters” weekend; your blog once again hit so close to home! I often find myself feeling like you are living my own life with boys, college, love the written word, etc….
A wonderful collection of affirmations is titled The Secret Life of Girlfriends by CiderMill Press. One special quote is “If all of my friends were to jump off of a bridge, I would not jump with them. I would be at the bottom to catch them.” ~ unknown.
I would love a copy of your book and that of Margaret Roach to share with my “sisters.”
Thank you for sharing your “gift.”
After reading the first paragragh…and your Gift of an Ordinary Day…it is YOU who I thought seemed like that “long time friend”. Please count me in!!!
“If you treat an individual… as if he were what he ought to be and could be, he will become what he ought to be and could be.” – Johann Wolfgang von Goethe.
I have always tried to keep this in mind as I have raised my children and lived a wonderful life with my husband. I have been a long time reader of Margaret’s blog since I have built a life as a professional gardener. I have just skimmed a few of your entries and know I will be back for more.
I feel as if I am entering a huge transition phase. The youngest of our four children has combined her junior/senior year and last week sent off her final applications to college. My oldest has lived in LA for 2 years and is now applying to grad schools for science writing, number 2 is graduating from undergrad and applying to grad schools, and my number 3 is transferring to a college that offers engineering and ROTC. I do not know where anyone will be living next fall other than NOT with me!I look forward to doing some blog reading in this, my “off” season.
Please count me in. I have always been inspired by, The Prophet, Kahlil Gibran and Siddhartha, by Hermann Hesse. Thank you for the opportunity to share in this give a way, and for the network that you present for readers to share works that are inspirational. I have a great list now to refer to. I look forward to reading this new recommendation by Margaret Roach and of course Katrina”s books are always on the nightstand and Hand Wash Cold by Karen Maezen Miller.
Hi Katrina – The quote from Catcher in the Rye sums up exactly how I felt after reading “The Gift of an Ordinary Day”! (And I thought I was a little crazy for feeling that way!) What an awesome book!
I have read and identified with quite a few books about personal transition, but for now I will just include Eat, Pray, Love by Elizabeth Gilbert and The Last Lecture by Randy Pausch.
I would LOVE to win….please include me in the drawing!
My first time here to your blog as I linked over from Margaret’s. Please enter my name in your giveaway! Please. Please. Please.
Katrina,
I was directed to your site through Margaret’s. I look forward to delving deeper into what you have to say here – so far, so good!
The last transitional book I read was Around the House and In the Garden: a Memoir of Heartbreak, Healing, and Home Improvement by Dominique Browning. It struck a chord with me, because I, too, deal with tough situations by working on my house and in the garden.
I hope I win both books!
Anne Lamott’s book, “Traveling Mercies,” and her follow-up memoirs really spoke to me and where I was in my life. I highly recommend them.
One of the writers who has inspired me the most is Anne Lamott. She has been in transition her entire life–that is life! Her irreverent attitude and loving spirit helped me learn to find my own courage to be authentic, love myself and find a steady voice. Her book, “Bird by Bird,” is not only one of the best books on learning how to write, but it also teaches you how to wrestle self-destructive fears, explore and embrace what makes you unique and be bold expressing it. Not to mention that Anne is hilarious. I look for that same spirit in other memoir-type books: that combination of seeking truth and being open and brave enough to share the journey with others. I look forward to reading you and Katrina’s writings!
Katrina –
How great to “meet” you through Margaret, whom I’ve been following for several years. I love your video, and would love to read your book! As the mother of 5, with three at colleges too far away, I’m reminded of the saying that mothering is the only job where the years fly by and the days are endless. Luckily, mothering also is a constant lesson in change. I guess I’m just not a very good student.
I have enjoyed both your books. Just found this blog today, thanks to Margaret. I am glad you are writing it; thank you.
Hi Katrina,
A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle
How nice to meet you through Margarets blog. The trailer for your book really touched my heart–another meaningful book to add to my library.
M-E
Thank you for the opportunity, and please know that I would be both honored and delighted to win.
I encourage believers and nonbelievers alike to read C. S. Lewis’ transitional and uplifting spiritual journey in his book “Surprised By Joy”. We all seek joy–but so often it makes us happy only for a moment. If, while wandering in a forest, we suddenly come upon a signpost that points us home, it would be absurd to be so happy that we hugged the sign and stayed there. Every joy points beyond itself, and may we all find that true joy this day.
Count me in. I loved both of your books and I follow your blog regularly. My two little ones love your homemade pretzel recipe. It has become a family favorite that we make together. I would be just thrilled to win the books!
Count me in Katrina!
Soulpancake by Rainn Wilson is a really great book.
Deep Water Passage by Ann Linnea….an deep inner exploration while kayaking around Lake Superior….fabulous!
I am dying to read Margaret’s book!
Edible Garden, by Alice Walters.
I adored A Gift from the Sea, and also L’Engle’s Crosswicks Trilogy. Your book, The Gift of an Ordinary Day, touched me so much, even though my children are grown and out of the house. I was just saying to my husband yesterday that I wanted to buy my own copy, as I had previously borrowed it from our library. I would love to re-read it.
I’ve bounced here from Margaret’s blog. I’m using this second opportunity to think about books that are important to me and to share a couple more.
I’m healthy, but I’d like to mention three books about living and dying. The Last Lecture by Randy Pausch, Loving and Leaving the Good Life by Helen Nearing, and Dying Well by Ira Byock are all wonderful tools for choosing to live life vitally while being familiar with the processes and possibilities of dying.
I haven’t read your books yet, but, having read the comments of your readers here, it’s pretty obvious that you, too, are aware and actively alive.
Count me in….and thanks.
What a Great Partnership/Friendship for you both and for us your readers/friends. I appreciate the introduction to Margaret and her book. I have read many inspirational books over the years. Currently my #1 is Change Your Thoughts Change Your Life by Dr. Wayne W. Dryer. #2 is The Power of Intention also by Dr. Dryer. I have read both several times.
Count me in !!!
Funny to be reading here, about this woman with a vaguely familiar name only to realize that I was on her site 2 weeks ago, hoping to do better on my garden this year. (Believe me, no where to go but up). Joined this contest in the hopes that you would tell me the name of your fave book (again), or better yet, I would win it.
And I could tell you the name of a great book which you might not have read _- “To Be a Pilgrim” by Joyce Cary. Anything by Joyce Cary. But also, esp. “The Horse’s Mouth” and also “Mr. Johnson”
And thanks for keeping the reading life alive!
Count me in! Journeys of self-discovery are my favorite kinds of books. I love Eat, Pray, Love; Dani Shapiro’s Devotion, Mary Pipher’s Seeking Peace; Anthony Doerr’s Four Seasons in Rome; Jeanette Walls’ The Glass Castle.
Count me in! Operating Instructions by Anne Lamott is a favorite of mine.
Arlene Harder’s online book called Letting Go of Our Adult Children starts, “As many other parents have discovered, there are no guarantees that our children will turn out the way we expected.” It was a big help to me a while back.
I’ve been asking “Now what?” through many difficult transitions – although scary, the state of flux leads to greater understanding.
Any of Anne Lammott’s wickedly funny, self-knowing books of essays. And since Margaret mentioned yoga, Waking by Matthew Sanford.
Watching your video brought a tear to my eye, you say it all so well about children growing up and away so quickly. I have been a fan of Margaret’s and am now glad to hear of your “gift” and blog.
Found you through Margaret’s INCREDIBLE blog which I have been reading for quite a while. A book I recently read that struck a cord is Dominique Browining’s new book, Slow Love.
Look forward to your book.
Farm City by Novella Carpenter
She sounds a little wacky, but she’s doing what she loves.
One of my favorite books of self-discovery has been Alice Koller’s An Unknown Woman. It’s been years since I read it, but I remember relating to the discoveries she made while living alone on Nantucket one long winter. I’d love to win the two new books to enjoy them as well. Oh, and Margaret said (from her blog) to say hi!
I truly look forward to getting to know you! A friend of Margaret’s is a friend of mine!
Count me in!!
The Shack is my thought pondering book for the moment!
Thank You for reaching out to others and touching us all!!
Count me in! I have always enjoyed Victoria Moran’s books. Just finished “Living a Charmed Life”.
I would love to win a set of books. I can relate as I am a gardener at heart and in body- but alas the body is aging and I am having to adapt things to make it work. I would rather be outside than inside. That is what my heart says.
I also loved Kelly Corrigans The Middle Place as it brought back so many tender hearted childhood moments raising my own children. It is over in a milisecond so enjoy each moment you have with your children. That is what I want to tell women that I see struggeling in a supermarket with a fussy child. Enjoy each moment before they are gone.- Kathy
I would love to win these books and can’t wait to explore here some more.
The book most responsible for me gardening and how I live my life…
The Good Life by Helen and Scott Nearing.
Margaret lead me to you ! HOW wonderful!! I am amazed by the wonderous lives that we are all living!
For a great gardening book – – “Gardening at the Dragon’s Gate” – lovely and inspiring!!
Now – PICK ME!!
Nice to meet you Katrina. I’ve been one of Margaret’s readers and learned about you from her. Shame on me for not discovering your writing earlier!
David Lebovitz’s book, The Sweet Life in Paris is one of my favorites. It gives this former chef a chance to experience the city without all the calories and marvel at the French way of life American tourists rarely see!
If I win, I promise to pay the gifts forward and pass them on when I’m done.
Margaret says hello! Count me in.
Eat,Pay,Love is my current greatest
Found your site through my favorite garden blogger, Margaret Roach. Thanks for some very inspiriting words; I’m sure your book is just what I need right now. Another author that has always brought me comfort is Wendell Berry and his amazing sense of place – anything he has written is a comfort and delight to read!
Two books that hit my sails and changed the course of my life; The Ultimate Gift by Jim Stovall (happy tears and profound inspiration) and Animal, Vegetable, Miracle by Barbara Kingsolver (great facts, great how-to and GREAT I’m-outta-here inspiration!).
Just watched your book trailer on Margret’s blog. You had me by the third sentence as tears rolled down my cheeks (as I am a mama of three). Such simple word choice woven into such vivid and profound internal visuals. Bravo! Nice to meet you:)–M
PS: Will I completely dehydrate (by crying) when I read your book? 😉
Annie Freeman’s Fabulous Traveling Funeral by Kris Radish is a fun book about how a group of women unite around their mutual friend’s final wish to be honored through a traveling funeral. The Dream Giver by Bruce Wilkinson is another great book; Ordinary, the main character, learns to overcome obstacles on his way to making dreams into realities. Thanks for all the practical advice and words of inspiration on your blog!
Follower of Martha Stewart, master gardener, avid reader, of course I would love to be one of the 4 lucky winners!
Hi, I’m a fan or Margaret’s, posted my inspiring books on her site today :
The Ripening Sun
Into the Wild
The Sweet Life In Paris: Delicious Adventures In The World’s Most Glorious – And Perplexing – City
The Guernsey Literary And Potato Peel Pie Society
From The Ground Up: The Story Of A First Garden
On Rue Tatin: Living and Cooking in a French Town
Being from the south originally, To Kill A Mockingbird inspires me to challenge the societal norms when they are not normal. If I could be a father in some way like Atticus Finch, I would be doing alright.
I found your video quite moving. A bit bittersweet since my babies are grown with babies of their own.
Now about books: I’ve just completed The Dirty Life: On Farming, Food, and Love by Kristin Kimball. What Iiked most about the book was that it wasn’t about 2 CEOs who retire from their jobs and retire to farming bliss in Vermont. Though the book lags at times . . . it does so because it reveals quotidian life. Day to Day. The Exhaustion. The Good, The Bad, and the Ugly. The conclusion was so well written as Kimball explores whether it was all worth it. It explores the cost of making a life changing career move.
The ONLY book I’ve read over and over is “Gift From The Sea” by Anne Morrow Lindbergh. It’s also the only one I’ve passed on to friends and students whenever the time for it seemed right….
I look forward to reading your posts, having been introduced via Margaret’s blog. Thanks for the chance to be included in the great book give away!
I have been anxiously awaiting Margaret’s new book and now yours is on my wish list. I raised four children and my heart broke when I took each of them to college and had to drive off without them. Next came retirement; talk about a transition! Two books that I read last year deeply touched my heart: Let’s Take the Long Way Home by Gail Caldwell describes an amazing friendship and how one woman had to learn to live with the loss of the other. Making Toast by Roger Rosenblatt tells of a family torn apart by loss and resconstruction of the family requiring major changes in lifestyle. Please include me in the drawing for your books!
Hi,
Before I forget Margaret says hello, which is how I found out about you. Was moved by your video excerpt from your book…it brought back a flood of memories & a few tears. Will be subscribing to your blog, after posting comment..count me in!
Katrina, My book of transition is one written by Fr. Lou Ruoff back in 1991 titled ‘For Give – Stories of Reconcilliation. His written word and spoken ministry melded with things that were going on in my personal life in a troubling time. 20 years later, I still pull out that book for reminders. Thanks for the chance at the giveaway…
Also posted on Margaret’s blog.
Tom
Hello Katrina,
I just watched your trailer, yet again, and yet again,tears stream down my face as I think to myself; I have to tell my kids to remember to take tons of photos of themselves with their kids. Your photos are wonderful, and your letter inspires me all the time. However, this time, I found your youtube video through Margaret’s blog, which is probably the only blog I read religiously. Her photos are incredible, and her gardening is so out of my league, yet inspires me to become a better gardner. Her artistic sense amazes me (and, I love the cat!) I would add Anne Morrow Lindbergh’s book “A Gift from the Sea” to the list of books I consider both yours and Margaret’s with. Thank you both.
Amy
What a gift to find your inspirational site!
I love books, please count me in!
My gardening faves for now are
The Good Life by the Nearings
Animal, Vegetable, Miracle by Barbara Kingsolver
I’m sure I’ve read some books that would qualify, but my mind must have cataloged them differently, because I’m drawing a blank.
Please enter me in the contest anyways?
Margaret sent me. I, too, am a mother of sons who went off into the world to build a life. When they came back, such gifts they brought! Two beautiful daughters-in-law and four golden grandchildren! I am so blessed!
Retiring in April-time to read – recently read Joyce Rupp “Open the Door”
loved it-so many blessings in the ordinary
Hello Katrina – I’m a visitor from Margaret’s wonderful website. I want to win your book for my ex sister-in-law who’s eldest is about to leave for college and Margaret’s book for me as I’m only mother to a dog who’s very happy to stay. Then, we can trade. Thank you. Nancy
What a beautiful post! I can’t wait to read Martha’s book now too. Thank you!
Pamela
For me, Mary Catherine Bateson covers it all in “Composing a Life” and “Peripheral Visions.”
Oh wow! Congratulations on finding a kindred spirit, Katrina–especially one who lives close to your son–How wonderful!!
Eat, Pray, Love and Committed both by Elizabeth Gilbert
Gift From the Sea by Anne Morrow Lindbergh
I’m starting a book called Improv Wisdom by Patricia Ryan Madson, which seems to be born from a personal transition I can relate to, just from reading the introduction.
So many books, those are just a few!
Thanks for introducing Margaret!
Hi Katrina. I’ve just popped in from Margaret’s site to say it would be wonderful to win your book. My children are long gone and live thousands of miles away, yet your words had me reliving the experiences of their young lives and the inevitable leave-taking. We too are blessed with lovely and loving daughters-in-law and two special grandchildren. I noticed another poster mentioned Wendell Berry. I find him inspirational as well. Others that are of a similar ilk are Temple Grandin and Brian Brett. I was fortunate to hear Temple Grandin speak at my son’s recent graduation from medical school. I come from a small farm background and her words were both validating and inspiring. I have also heard Brian Brett speak and read. His book “Trauma Farm” is a delicious mix of poetry and philosophy.
I read through the commits and my favorite titles have been named. Basically I love women’s memoirs. I am so intrigued by peoples lives and their stories. Woman have so much to offer other woman through their own personal stories.
Plus I hope to win the books.
First, Margaret says Hi.
Then, all time favorites:
Sand Country Almanac by Aldo Leopold
Eat, Pray, Love
anything by Barbara Kingsolver
Transition is the norm for this change junkie, but there are some of you who do it with such grace that I treasure reading about it.
My very first inspirational book was given to me as a young girl. Joan Walsh Anglund’s “A Friend is Someone Who Likes You”…followed by “Love is a Special Way of Feeling”..don’t laugh…honest, sweet words to guide a young girl growing up in the 60’s. My grandmother gave me a book in my late teens titled “The Natural Way to Super Beauty”…great inspiration for those awkward teenage years…As an adult, I too have turned to “Gift from the Sea”…But, my go-to book, my life changing read from last year is “The Gift of an Ordinary Day”..I just loaned my hard copy to a friend who is going through a tough time…she called me, after reading only 52 pages, and asked “how does Katrina Kenison know what I am thinking?”….I know, I know….
I would love to be introduced to Margaret through her book…if she is YOUR soul mate, imagine how her words will resonate with your readers!
Looking forward to your book. The one I’ve been reading is Trauma Stewardship, by Laura vanderNoot Lipsky. Affirming and good counsel for people who serve, and get exposed to trauma while doing so.
Hi there,
Got here via Margaret’s blog, so it won’t be a surprise that my suggested books are from authors who touch on gardens, farms, nature, and our place in those things.
I cracked a book about 6 mos. ago and then, it was so good, I had to stop so I could save it and talk my foodie book club into picking it up. Well, it was a totally democratic vote (I swear on a tomato), and “Trauma Farm” by Brian Brett got the votes. It’s about the mystery, frustration, and intensity of land and nature and living as a human on this planet. The jacket says he writes poetry too and the writing is stunning in spots (that’s why I put it down initially, to just think.)
I also liked the musings relayed in “Crow Planet” by Lyanda Lynn Haupt. It’s NOT just about crows, and I’ll leave it at that!
Lastly, a small older gem I stumbled onto that gets at the never-ending wonder of gardening and how it can change you (oh, and your garden) is from a Czech writer, Karel Capek, who wrote “The Gardener’s Year”.
I’d love to get the books too!
The Dean’s Watch by Elizabeth Goudge. I re-read it once a year and cry every time.
Am looking forward to scrolling through this site (new to me) as well as getting a chance at both your books!
I am so looking forward to reading your book. Sometimes understanding the journeys of others can be a guidepost in our own lives…
Cheers,
Wow. Glad I found your site thru Ms Margaret. I look forward to reading your book(s)
Warmest Regards
Steve A
It’s a pleasure to meet you via Margaret Roach’s wonderful website/blog. Making new and very special friends is such a joy.
so many inspirational books, so little comment space!
First: Pilgrim at Tinker Creek (Annie Dillard)
Most recent: Goat Song (Brad Kessler)
Most woo-woo: Return of the Goddess (Elizabeth Cunningham)
Most impact: A Country Year (Sue Hubbell)
Most re-read: To Kill a Mockingbird (Harper Lee)
hope I win the new books!
my inspirational book is A Tree Grows in Brooklyn. i found your site through Margaret’s blog and I look forward to reading your book!
Thank you for your book and thanks for the oppotunity to enter the give away. Came over from Margaret’s blog. Glad to find you.
Katrina,
Just came across your website and just bought YOUR book! I have a one year old son at home and am really looking forward to reading your book about “life as a mom” – especially as a working mom because I am also a high school teacher. I am very interested in reading Margaret’s book as well, so please consider me!
One of my favorite set of books is by Iris Krasnow – “Surrendering to Marriage,” “Surrendering to Motherhood,” and “Surrendering to Yourself.” I have “many a pages” highlighted in those, and am currently working my way through her newest book, “I Am My Mother’s Daughter.”
Shannon
I found you through Margaret’s site.
Please count me in.
Please count me in the drawing for your book. Can’t wait to read it.
Thank you both for writing these books. Please count me in for the draw. I can’t wait to read them. I have also reinvented myself a few times. This time I think I finally got it right! At 43 I have discovered my inner athlete, I always knew about my love for gardening but sometimes it fell by the wayside, and I make time to be creative.
Please count me in!! I loved Mike Dooley’s “Infinite Possibilities”. There really are infinite possibilities and we often choose to “poo-poo” them. It changed how I thought about what I can accomplish, and changed my ideas about accomplishments – they don’t always include fortune (monetarily) or fame, but can be, and often are, more internal than that.
I am a “horse person” so my book is The Man Who Listens to Horses, by Monty Roberts. It gave me a much greater understanding of the animals I love.
Oh I am so there with you and Margaret. Been trying to “transition” for a bunch of years now but something keeps coming up. So I’ll do the ‘bloom where I am planted’ thing.
“When Wanderers Cease to Roam” by Vivian Swift was a wonderful read about transition that I identified with… being in a similar situation – ceasing traveling – and of a similar age to the writer. Beautifully illustrated by the author and she does have a lovely insight and way of turning a word.
It is so nice to visit your blog for the first time…your celebration of ordinary events, as seen through a lens that recognizes their inherent specialness, is like another window through which to look at my own focus on transitions. I’ve been thinking recently about rereading Catcher in the Rye, so your quote caught my attention immediately–I was considering copying and pasting my comment from Margaret’s blog (to do with Watership Down and The Brothers Grimm) but now I can’t. After reading yours, I have to say:
Don’t these literate, thoughtful blogs give us exactly what Holden Caulfield is asking for? Not to the point of actual coffee and sleep-overs, of course, but in a real sense–acquaintance and an exchange of ideas not seen since the correspondences among authors in years past? Thanks! I’ll be checking in as often as I can.
I loved reading not only the blog, but the book recommendations from others. Many of the books listed I have read, but I think I will add others to my 2011 list. My treasure is like many other women, Gift from the Sea. I read some part of it every year, especially Moonshell. And it is the gift I give to women in need of reassurance that their life has meaning.
Margaret says Hi! The book of Ruth and count me in!
I am an avid gardner also trying to make more time for myself. I am going to be 50 this year. I was a stay at home mom-homemaker until my 40′s. i took that position very seriously and did it quite well. Now I work full-time with my husband of 29 years and I am struggling with the loss of time to myself. I can’t get rid of the urge to care for others in my family. I cook dinner every night . . . and take care of the household needs. Winter is especially difficult for me because it seems there is no time left for me. As soon as it warms up, I head to the outdoors to my gardens. I spend just about every waking hour outside – neglecting most of the indoor “duties” – but it revitalizes me. I am happy. I think I would benefit greatly from reading both of your books.
Woops, I totally forgot to tell you a very motivational book I have read. It is called “Notes Left Behind”. It is a journal written by a family during the last year of their 6 yr old daughters life. It is an inspiration to me to remember what is truly important in life. It reminds you to stop your “rat race” life . . . take time to tell those around you that you love them, hug your kids, smell the flowers . . .
I would be honored to have both books. As I watch my first-born fly, and my second daughter start down the college search path, I, too, am committed to my wholeness post full-time momness. The book that first grounded me in my unique and blessed soul was Personhood, Leo Buscaglia.
Thich Nhat Hanh, Peace is Every Step, is a long-time favorite of mine. Count me in!
You are just two fantastic women….thank you for sharing your gifts to all of us….looking forward to reading both of your books! One of my favorite books is “Simple Abundance.”
Would love to read the books! Every day is a gift. Opened my eyes when I read Max Lucado’s Next Door Savior. Any of his books bring hope & encouragement to ordinary selves.
Your giveaway is indeed a gifting of inspiration. Count me in.
I completely connected with Dominique Browning’s Slow Love Life. Her writing empowered me to listen to myself- my deep down self.
By the way, “Margaret says hi”.
Margaret sent me!
Living in the Light, Shakti Gawain [I learned to trust my gut, my instinct/intuition];
The Magic of Thinking Big, Dr. David Schwartz [“stinkin’ thinkin’ ” holds me back];
Synchronicity, Joseph Jaworski [the power of the state of commitment & surrender together creates possibility for opportunities to show up, and they have];
Personality Profiles, Florence Littauer [personality traits grouped by the 4 “humours”–fluids of the body defined by Hypocretes–that enabled me to accept the way a person behaves rather than to dismiss someone as a blinkin’ !@#$%^&*s!!!];
The Secret [what I attract to me, what i create ];
Hung by the Tongue [the power of what you say to yourself and others–I never read it, the title says it all for me–governs what shows up, what I create for myself, what I speak into existence, positive or negative].
Currently reading your book, Katrina – The Gift of an Ordinary Day. I love it! I also loved The Tao of Pooh by Benjamin Hoff!
Would be very blessed to win a set of books – always looking for a great read!
Thanks for the opportunity!
To pick one book is too hard. I’ve gotten different strengths and new perspectives from so many different authors. Barbara Kingsolver, anything, but in particular, Prodigal Summer, Janisse Ray, who sees beauty in so much around her and John Hanson Mitchell’s The Wildest Place on Earth, Italian Gardens and the Invention of Wilderness. All amazing. Thanks for offering your book to us. Joan
Margaret says hello!
Thanks for sharing this book, and this opportunity!
Cheers!
I am SO enjoying reading the comments from all your readers! I am a HUGE Book lover and reader and I am writing down all the books so I can go and find them at my bookstore!
Of course they must be “real” books that I can curl up with!
I don’t want to repeat any of the books mentioned already, except The Gift of an Ordinary Day: that I read straight through in one day!
One book that saved my life through a very difficult period is “Faith in the Valley: Lessons for women on the journey to Peace,”by Ivanyla Van Zant. I have given out to many friends and they too remarked how it truly helped them!
It’s one of those books you open to any page and feel that the “lesson” pertains to what you are going through!
Please enter me in your contest! I still have all my childhood favorites with their bookplates attached!
A dear friend gifted me the title noted below nine years ago now (can it be ?) at a professional crossroads … I so hope she knows how much credit I owe her for setting me on the path to creating my own company, working on my own terms at a craft I love – gardening. One of my current inspirations, M Roach, linked me to your site. The title: “Always believe in yourself and your dreams”.
Katrina I was introduced to you today through Margaret’s blog, as I subscribe to it by newsletter. I live in Brooklyn, NY with a postage stamp sized backyard but I always envision myself as a gardener so I love Margaret’s blog, although honestly I ave not read her book as yet. She has the YouTube of your reading form your book up on her post and it brought tears to my eyes. My children are both adults now and I, too, miss those special little moments of motherhood so much! I am now a grandmother as my oldest has his own son. They live across the country from me, however, so it is a little hard for me to be able to visit my grandson who is the new light of my life.
As I told Margaret I am now trying to explore and enjoy my city more and I try to share those experiences on my blog, always dwelling on the positive as much as I am able.
Two books spoke to me in my life: “The Prophet” by Kahlil Gibran when I was young and “Simple Abundance” by Sarah Ban Breathnach when I was older. I’ve kept a gratitude journal ever since I read her book and it has made a big difference in my life!
I’m looking forward to reading your blog and book! It’s so nice to find you!
Gift From The Sea
and
MittenStrings From God
I followed the link from Margaret. Thanks to you both for the oppty to receive your gifts.
The book I give to you and your readers is Tinkers — a truly beautiful wander through memory and time.
Count me in for the drawing! I am currently in the middle of “Eat, Pray, Love” (wisely reading it before seeing the movie) and have found it poignant to the point of tears. I find so many similarities between Liz Gilbert and myself, both in actual circumstances (horrible divorce and attaching myself to men to keep from being alone) and also in mental outlook. Not too long before picking up the book, I actually found myself also on my knees praying and crying in the middle of the night (something I’ve never done before). Because I identify so well with her, I feel as if I am taking this journey to self discovery and healing right along with her. It is my new favorite book, toppling “To Kill a Mockingbird” which has held that title for nearly 25 years.
The book that helped shape my vocational and spiritual paths was Parker Palmer’s “Let Your Life Speak: Listening for the Voice of Vocation.” It was suggested to me in a daylong workshop on spiritual leadership and helped lay the cornerstone of my ministry in Unitarian Universalism, a wide divergence from the newspaper journalism with which I began my career. Wherever you are in life, Parker Palmer has words to soothe and heal, particularly in this book.
Greetings from Margaret and “A Way to Garden”! Your video is lovely, and touched me even though I’ve never had children. Thank you for sharing your gifts with us!
Going to try this post again. Wonderful to be able to listen to the combined voices of you both. You each enhance the other. Count me in as a “listener” at both websites!
I suggest Annie Dillard’s wonderful books and most especially her “Holy the Firm.” It is a powerful and beautiful meditation of the spiritual in the midst of everyday life…even in the midst of some of life’s most hardest moments, the ones we sometimes find most difficult to accept.
“Count me in”, as I can so totally relate to this book. Can’t wait to read it!!
At age 53, I turned my back on a 30+ career in nursing and enrolled in a graduate program in sustainable landscape planning and design with the added bonus of living in western Massachusetts for 10 months. Not to be outdone, my husband was downsized from his job right before I left for the east coast. Now we are both meeting the challenge of self-employment at mid-life. For sanity on the journey, I’ve devoured Barbara Brown Taylor’s Altar in the World and Leaving Church. There are so many of us on the journey. When I announced that I was changing careers, I literally became the mother-confessor of unrealized dreams. While I am certainly living more hand to mouth, it’s been worth every anxious and exhilarating moment.
Count me in!
The Last Lecture for sure! So inspiring…
Yes! Please count me in. Prof. Randy Pausch’s book “The Last Lecture” made an impact on my outlook.
count me in. I loved your book and I too love Rumi – I now look forward to Margaret’s book as well. Thank you for all you do for those of us out there searching.
I am a middle school librarian and I saw your book at our school bookfair. I decided to read it because your “story” sounded so much like what I am going through. I can’t begin to express how much I LOVED The Gift of an Ordinary Day – I have bought copies of it and Mitten Strings for God for friends. I tell everyone I talk to about it! One book I read that truly touched me was Gail Caldwell’s Let’s Take the Long Way Home – about friendship but also a journey. In the book she calls herself a “gregarious hermit” and I have adopted that moniker for myself. Her writing was so authentic, I felt the loss of her friend myself. A truly amazing book.
I couldn’t have survived the 7 years we lived in Kansas without the discovery of Dakota, by Kathleen Norris. Other books of change, reinvention, and journey (inward and outward) that I read and re-read yearly are Two-Part Invention by Madeleine L’Engle in which she uses the death of her husband to revisit who she was as an individual and through her marriage relationship, and Barbara Brown Taylor’s book Leaving Church.
I have recently discovered a publishing house, milkweed press, I’ve loved the two books I’ve read that were released by them. the first was a barn at the end of the world, the second simply titled ‘Homestead’ both kept me entertained and led me to dwell on what I’d read— inpiring!
I found my way back through the grief of losing my mother and then my brother, five months after, with the book,”The Year of Magical Thinking”(2006) by Joan Didion. Please enter me in your book give away. Thanks. PS Margaret said to say, “Hi”!
I’ve just been alerted to this blog by Margaret Roach from A Way to Garden. I’m a bit of a luddite when it comes to technology, but I love how women who would never ordinarily have a chance to meet can connect with each other so beautifully ( I live in Australia). A book that I love about a life changing time is The Olive Grove by Patrice Newell, and Australian author who gave up the “glamorous” life of a model and television presenter to buy a farm and start an olive grove. Written beautifully but honestly. Highly recommended
Two books that I have thoroughlly enjoyed are The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle and The Alchemist by Paolo Coelho. Both books teaches life wisdom. About living in the now and reaching for your dream and listening to your heart. Please count me in in the book give away! I am soo curious about the two books!
~Susanne
I found you one day when I was searching. Searching for someone I could identify with, who was feeling the same as I was about my children growing up and out. I have laughed with you and I have cried for you.
Count me in…I would be blessed to receive such gifts!
Sarah Ban Breathnach’s Simple Abundance touched me very deeply.
I have read many of these amazing books, and am thrilled to have so many other titles to look forward to. . . . especially the two in the giveaway. . . which I hereby enter. Thanks!
Visiting your blog and hearing your tale of happiness having just finished each other’s books is so wonderful. I will visit your blog again to enjoy it more. I’ve loved Margaret’s blog a few years already. Louise
Mykonos: A Memoir by Nancy Raeburn
Wow! You’ve introduced me to a new person, website – I am so excited. Almost as excited as when I first encountered “Mitten Strings” years ago. Now that was inspirational!!! I also love “Forty Acres and a Poodle”. Such a realistic, but humorous, book about a life transition. I would LOVE to win!!
Am unable to watch Katrina’s complete video as my two beloveds are both entering college this month, and my husband and I have followed our dream and moved across the country to pursue our dream of a rural, farming life. Katrina, you had me in tears, for as far as I was able to watch. Will come back when my resolve is stronger :). An inspiration for me has been Susan Thomas at Farmgirl Fare. Her blog is not a book as such, but she has left city life on the west coast to become sheep farmer, organic vegetable grower in the Ozarks of Missouri. Love her story. Also love Jenna Woginrich’s story in Made From Scratch, in which she works to live her dream of becoming a sheep farmer on her own farm. Both great reads with real life trials, and successes! Thanks for the opportunity.
I am sorry Katrina! I should have said that my new buddy Margaret introduced me to you. You are a delight to listen to. Bravo to you!
oh, yes please.
yes, count me in. I am very new to your blog…my friend just recommended it to me and I just bought your book! Please count me in for the giveaway. I had many books that transformed me during my battle with cancer, but one that stands out is Pema Chodron’s “The Places that Scare you”. It was the beginning of meditating or praying anywhere, anytime! She taught me that even when you think you don’t have time to “meditate”, you can even take that minute in your car and breathe deeply and say a few words to center yourself and bring yourself to the now. I do this daily…many times a day now.
Tuesdays with Morrie. I cried, laughed, and felt connected to the story.
Hi I was just at Margeret’s blog and saw the video she posted about your book.
it really struck a chord with me and made me smile as I watched your boys and you. I have a boy and a girl – they are grown and making their way in the world. and I still am smiling and enjoying the ordinary days. I don’t always hear from them as often as I want but I still enjoy the ordinary days and remember the little things about growing up. I can truly say that i loved all of it even those difficult teenage years. I was just thrilled with my 15 yr olds that had the whole world in front of them and nothing was impossible.
now the unimaginable has happened to my brother and his family -their son was in a bad accident a week and a half ago. I am hoping and praying that the last memory they have of their son isn’t him in his hospital bed with tubes running everywhere. I want them to have the ordinary days again.
Mary Jo, I join you this afternoon in that hope and prayer for your brother’s family. May their ordinary days return.
Such a lovely giveaway. A great way to learn about both of you.
Count me in please! Would love to read you book.
I am deeply engrossed in “reading” “The Gift of an Ordinary Day” on my iPod while walking at lunch during my work days. When my dad died a couple of years ago, he reminded me to appreciate my two little girls before it was too late (a regret of his own since he worked two jobs and left raising the kids to my mom.)
I appreciate very much the day to day joys and challenges of living with two small girls and holding down a full time job, and am trying to appreciate the moments now, before they’re gone.
I recently enjoyed “Cutting for Stone”, which is a totally different kind of book, a coming of age story of an Indian man raised in Ethiopia, coming to America and practicing medicine here.
Count me in!
Barbara Kingsolver’s Animal, Vegetable, Miracle helped my transition to rural life. My husband and I moved to rural VA after our children moved on to lead their own lives. It was a long desire to leave our stressful careers and like Babara live closer to nature and eat local, however it’s been a transition with (for me) unanticipated adjustments. I am so looking forward to reading these two books as this same topic of midlife tranistion is explored.
The last of my five children left for college this past fall…and I’ve returned to school to finish my BA. I’m up to my eyeballs in transition issues!!! {lease count me in the drawing.
Pilgrim at Tinker Creek, by Annie Dillard, inspires me to slow down and observe the world around me.
Would love to win. My oldest is entering high school next year and I am in denial! Where did the time go?
Thanks for the opportunity!
Tracey
My daughter bought a lovely book for me recently called Self Sufficiency for the 21st Century by Dick and James Strawbridge. Its right up my alley!
Count me in!! I am truly the new kid on the block, first time ever to read a blog more than once, finding many things in common, mostly the comaraderie with other women living out this journey called life…
Favorite book re life transition: The Land Between by Jeff Manion. It has helped me to embrace the in between and choose to grow from the journey.
i am so looking forward to reading both books, totally where i am, at a cross roads, leaving the comfort of the city, and going into the wilderness, what shall i discover there? myself?? A great book about solitude, The Outer Most House, Henry Beston
I’ve been reading A Way to Garden for a couple of years, and feel a great afinity for Margaret. I’m a New Englander and a gardener. I’m also a mother of two grown sons and am just now feeling peaceful about my life without them in it every day.
I just read Caitlin Shetterly’s blog and would love to read her new book about her journey west and home again to Maine. This seems to be the month for identifying with women around my age in the northeast who are finding a different way to be in the world. I’d love to win your book and hers.
Margaret says hi! I would love to win this fabulous book! The book that inspires me about transition is “The Martha Rules” by Martha Stewart. This book inspires me to stay on the right path and ideas in which I can be successful with my own craft business. Thank you
Martha Stewart has such an interesting story and Margaret Roach seems to have been there many times. Do you think Margaret is having peace, now? I was gifted with Alice Peck’s BREAD BODY SPIRIT at Christmas so the idea of making celebration of ordinary has been foremost in my mind this month. (but I still am lacking in finding sacred in housekeeping)
I’d really love to read your two books. One book that was pretty transformational for me recently was When the Soul Listens by Jan Johnson
The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari series by Canadian author Robin Sharma. It started me on my journey.
I love your website!
i would love to win your new book. please and thank you
Hi! So very nice to find you here – glad that Margaret shared you with us! As I mentioned over at her site – one of my favorite books is Kathleen Norris’ Amazing Grace. It soothed me and inspired me during some very tough times. I look forward to reading both of your books very soon!
Hi Katrina,
What an exciting flurry of friendships and comments and inspiration and books.
As for an inspiring book about transition, I would cite “Night” by Elie Wiesel. I read it as a teenager and related so deeply to it because it perfectly described horrific visions I had had since early childhood but never understood.
Whether I’d picked up my ancestors’ trauma unconsciously or come to these terrible visions by some unexplainable means, reading about Elie Wiesel’s story proved grounding and validating to me and made me feel less alone in a world I found strange: suburban Chicago.
Here’s to books. Namaste
The current inspirational book I am reading is Embracing Your Second Calling by Dale Hanson Bourke. Very appropriate for those in their 40′s and up who find themselves asking alot of “what if’s” about the earlier half of their lives – and wanting to make the rest of it more meaningful (like following their hearts and moving to the country to pursue of life of gardening!)…..it’s very uplifting and motivating.
I’d like to read both books.
Hey Katrina- (I know I already commented) But-as I was doing my daily reading from”Meditations from the Mat” there you were!!! These daily readings have greatly enhance my yoga practice and my life! Small world truly-Namaste’
Hi,
I learned of your book through Margaret’s
blog-she has long been an inspiration for
me as a gardener.
I started my own transition to my current
life as a potter over 20 years ago.
I was partly inspired by the biography, LUCIE RIE, by Tony Birks,
which is the story of one of the most
renowned women potters, who left a
secure but empty marriage to pursue
her art.
Wonderful read
Let’s Take the Long Way Home – Gail Caldwell. With a mastery of words, her ability to write about a deep friendship and the loss of her friend, Christine Knapp was both touching and joyful. Their friendship was yet another version of sisterhood.
Happy Margaret introduced us.
Count me in to win please! I recommend a recent read by Rory Stewart “The Places In Between” about his journey across post 2001 Afghanistan. Amazing how the villagers at each step of his journey, with so very little, nevertheless opened up their homes to him to offer shelter and to break bread with him.
Been reading Margret’s blog for sometime and I’m so excited to be introduced to you. Among the inspiration books I’ve read recently, Eat, Pray, Love by Elizabeth Gilbert has been one of my favorites. I’m always inspired by those who’ve taken that leap of faith.
thanks for all your winter garden inspiration
Eat, Love, Pray for me too right now. She’s a v. good writer. When I read stuff like this it helps me relax and get some peace of mind and perspective. Margaret’s writing about gardening helps with that too and I can’t wait to read her new book!
Here’s a new one… Life Your Way: Refresh Your Approach to Success and Breathe Easier in a Fast-Paced World [Paperback]
Amy Wood Psy.D. (Author)
You can read the first couple of chapters on Amazon. Very relatable to today.
Margaret, thank you for bringing us all together and introducing us to Katrina.
So glad I found you. Please count me in.
Count me in! Would love to win these books.
Count me in. Elizabeth Strout’s Olive Kitteridge had a profound effect on me as I felt it to be so honest. It reinforced the fact that as human beings we are so much more alike than different. Simple Abundance, and the suggestion to keep a gratitutude journal has been life changing. Thank you for the Gift of an Ordinary Day.
I have seen your video of you reading from your book in the past and just today …. I WANT TO WIN BOTH OF YOUR BOOKS!!!
Hello, Katrina.
I commented on Margaret’s site earlier today and now I’m here. I’m not sure if I’m supposed to write the same comment in both places but I think I’ll be a little different here :-).
I love the title of your new book and on that basis alone I want to read it. This past year I’ve learned that I find my greatest joy and life’s deepest meaning in the ordinary moments of each day. But I also know I’ve reached a stage in my life when I need to make big changes and I’m looking for guidance. I look forward to exploring your web site & I’m happy to have found it through Margaret’s blog.
Hello Katrina,
oved your video which came to me via Margaret Roach…… I so look forward to her weekly newsletter. I will be living mostly in the country as soon as the snow lets me get out of the city. I have recently retired and love the peace and tranquility in the country ….. the transition from Long Island to NE CT is going to be awesome for me……. Also a bit scary. “Brooklyn”, a book that I have recently read is about leaving one country for another, and how life evolves as one lets go and takes back and lets go ….. you never know what lies around the corner and it is this unknown that makes for adventure.
I would LOVE to win a set of these books. In any case, they are both on my list to read.
Judi
I so happy for Margaret and you for making a strong soul connection. As a mother of two teenage sons, 18 and 16, your book resonated with me on so many levels. I have shared it with other mothers who have enjoyed it immensely I’d love to win the both books. My latest read that I’d recommend is Cherries in Winter by Suzan Colon.
I just finished The History of Love & it was amazing. The characters are moving in such a wonderful forward motion towards the next stage & when it all culminates, it makes it brutally clear what’s important.
On another note, your new found friendship sounds delightful. I’m a mom of two girls and the first thing that went out the window once I became a mom is my friendships. I’m learning again how to be a good friend. It’s lovely and fun and such a great example for my girls.
Nothing like a good girlfriend =)
I’ve been away from home for a few weeks, so I’ve also been offline for a bit as well. Here’s hoping my entry is timely.
I thoroughly enjoyed your book, Katrina, and I look forward to reading Margaret’s as well.
I’ve come to your site through Margaret and am so glad that you brought her snowshoes! They’re such fun and a great metaphor for staying balanced on your journey. Look forward to following you regularly and reading your books.
A Dog Year by Jon Katz was a book that I purchased and quickly read shortly after we got our first dog (a very smart, stubborn lab). I related to so much of it. I loved reading about the challenges and rewards he was going through. I would honestly say that having her has pushed me in ways I never expected, including taking a dog sledding trip with Outward Bound in Minnesota. That was one of the best things I could have done for myself. And she is still – 13+ years later, challenging, and rewarding, me in ways I never expected – along with her new playmate which is a different dog completely (rescued Italian Spinone) with a different set of challenges and rewards.
Count Me In! It’s never too late!!!
Last week I went over to my neighbor’s here in Concord NH and suggested she read “The Gift of an Ordinary Day”. I had just chosen it for my book club because of it’s profound impact on me. She in turn told me to read “and I shall have some peace there”. What a coincidence! I can’t wait to start it.